It’s a feeling where you know somebody is supposed to be in your life for longer & greater purpose. I’ve only had it once with my first love & recently now with someone that im not in contact with.I don’t tell anyone because I know people will think I’m crazy but the intuition is real..& I just know that it’s not the end.
2026-11-02 02:52:42
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Rachel :
Every comment saying it’s limerence is wrong. I’m sorry. It sounds like you are a human being with a connection to someone and it takes time to get over that! If you are obsession about whether or not it’s reciprocal - then yes, i/
2026-11-02 10:10:43
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ivanka ♡ :
even feeling attraction to a guy is uncommon for me so yes they will stay in my head for a WHILE 😔
2026-11-02 01:39:09
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fangz4brainz 🇵🇸 :
even if they are interested, this intense feeling without really having any affirmation on their end is still limerance. someone can like you and still not wsnt to be in a relationship with you (hard lesson for me to learn)
2026-11-02 02:24:03
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Persianprincess :
This is exactly the situation I’m in right now
2026-11-01 22:59:33
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Riverstar553 :
I’ve always felt that this was extremely human and normal. I can love someone for the fact that they exist and always want to be with them regardless of how they feel or what’s happening at the moment! I personally just have to accept that I can’t always have what I want in life, continue living, chasing my goals, and always be open to giving and receiving love 🤷🏾♀️
2026-11-02 02:38:50
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Jeniffer Monteagudo :
Girl sameeeeee, literally 4 years, drops everyone so so so quick, except this one guy with who I know for sure we both love each other deeply so its been very very hard letting go
2026-11-02 02:13:30
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JENNY C :
I feel this SO BAD! And also it’s because I don’t even like guys very often 😭 like I can’t let it go
2026-11-01 23:07:48
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𑣲𝓵𝔂𝓼𝓼 :
going thru this rn
2026-11-01 22:59:14
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Zo the Rebellion :
Definitely understandable, its rare to find a great connection now of days.
2026-11-02 10:10:47
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suzy.nj :
yes!!! I can't stop yearning for him. but i haven't reached out in 2 months.... I want to but I cant seem to do it.
2026-11-02 01:00:27
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hellodarlingash :
I say it al of the time, this person and I are supposed to be in each others life for a reason bigger than I understand or can explain. People be looking at me crazy, I’m glad I found my community.
2026-11-02 06:00:03
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Piers :
Unfortunately this is limerence. If you don’t feel reciprocation, move on girl
2026-11-02 01:51:41
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Maliyah | Writing & Film :
It hurts so bad because you feel so desperate and delusional and you want to let them go but something in you know that you two are meant for more.
2026-11-02 04:15:06
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cleouurrr_nauurrr :
IT HURTS LIKE A B*TCH
2026-11-02 01:26:59
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Elaine Renae :
You are not alone in this, I'm going through the same thing. And I agree with you, I feel like this is something deeper than just Limerence. I feel like it's spiritual. I've been going on and on about a certain someone for years now (uncontrollably) and we are in separation and I just don't understand for the life of me why I just can't move on and that to me is why I think it's spiritual.
2026-11-02 07:45:15
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reyianaa :
it doesn’t feel like limerence because you respect yourself and the situation enough to let it go and let it be. And limerence is usually a false idea of a person that you’ve created in your mind or moments you’re holding on to because of the feeling that person gave you. What you’re feeling right now is more so towards the invisible thread theory. I’m Muslim so a situation like this, which is what I’m going through to is explained a bit differently in Islam. And is easier to explain than when you put it in theoretical terms, I’ll try to best explain this to my best abilities. In Islam we believe that whatever is destined for you will find you even if it means it must cross over mountains to reach you. Yet, what was right in front of you and misses you was never meant for you. Now let me break it down.. if something feels so out of your reach that you feel as if you don’t even know how it will come back to you. Allah(God) put you in that position for a reason. A reason you don’t understand right now but will, soon enough. This also ties in with manifesting things into your life. Just like if something was yours and it was right there and Allah(god) didn’t allow you to have it no matter how close it was to you, it was never yours. Now some people believe this means that they will never get a person back or they spoke to someone they really liked and it’s done. But no, what this really mean is that. If something was so close in your reach and you did everything to keep it, no matter how bad you wanted it. IT WAS NEVER GONNA BE YOURS. sometimes people force things and create this narrative aka limerence, and fall head over heels for a fantasy they’ve created and not the reality of the situation. This is the difference between what you’re speaking about and limerence. Whenever a person is on your heart and mind so often that it isn’t about how they just made you feel but what they did and how they went about what happened, it starts to become deeper than just emotions and feelings, the depth of what you feel for them goes beyond what you’ve ever experienced because you’re willing to accept and have patience for something without knowing what your outcome might be.
2026-11-02 06:42:27
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souwin Cheyenne 2 :
i mean yeah but you have to admit it's. a little delusional and you just gotta focus genuinely your just feeding into big unplaceable feeling
2026-11-02 03:25:45
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Khylie😁😁 :
this is kinda bad advice but it worked for me. just keep going back until you can’t do it anymore. eventually you’ll realize that he DOES like you and you guys do have chemistry but you guys just aren’t compatible at the end of the day and it will never work. once you go back so many times you’ll realize that nothing you do will work and it’s best to move on (moving on is in fact the answer bestie but you have to want to do it)
2026-11-02 01:46:08
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Amanda🪽☁️ :
The iNtuItIoN is the limerence babe 😬
2026-11-02 02:19:55
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𝓞𝓼𝓼𝓱𝓪𝓮 :
No because he’s literallyyy my other half and the timing was just really off, I had to grow and so did he and I know we’ll make our way back, PERIOD.
2026-11-02 02:10:02
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Paige Sandage :
Yesss. I’ve been single for 4 years too & I recently started dating & this one man has got me in a chokehold! Everyone else thinks I’m crazy but when we’re together the way he smiles at me & looks at me gives me butterflies & no other man I’ve ever been around has made me feel like this. He’s an avoidant on top of it so he doesn’t share his feelings but I feel it in my soul it’s him. I sound crazy but he’s burned into my brain & I cannot get him out!
2026-11-02 01:45:01
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Michael Castillo :
We’re exactly the same and are going through the same thing lol
2026-11-02 03:43:15
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JPM :
he has said he loves me but doesn't want to be with me bcs of events that have happened between us 😭
2026-11-02 02:26:23
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Meg :
Limerence ruined my life
2026-11-02 01:45:06
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