@rewirewithrach: After a discard (or even breakup) these are things a fearful avoidant can be thinking but would never tell you… #breakup #nocontact #attachmentstyle #rewirewithrach #fypシ
It’s so sad because I really did love her for who she was as she was. I thought she was an amazing person. But she didn’t see herself that way I pray every night that God touches our heart and let her know she is worthy and deserving of love.
2026-11-02 00:11:34
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Nkanyezi🌈 :
the entire thought process is exceptionally self focused and based entirely on their idea of reality....the lack of empathy and lack of considering things from the other perspective makes them very emotionally dangerous to come across ..but can be very self rewarding after you heal from it
2026-11-02 09:33:59
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Incogkimo :
The fault finding 🤦🏾♂️
2026-11-02 08:03:44
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Shannon 💋💋 :
They don’t give a fuck about us
2026-11-03 03:21:40
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bisexualgomezaddams :
The hate for people that lean more avoidant is insane.
2026-11-02 03:28:26
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Vanta :
I have finally moved on, and it feels so good. I just still get recommended these videos
2026-11-02 09:15:24
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Hannah 🤍 :
So how do I get him back then? 😭
2026-11-02 17:25:32
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blake :
I’m exhausted.
2026-11-02 00:20:25
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DC :
Fix yourself 🫡💚
2026-11-02 04:46:07
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sup10967 :
and you had someone else waiting
2026-11-02 02:16:18
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Kevanthemildlyamusing :
This was everything I always wanted to hear… and everything I didn’t need to hear.
2026-11-02 11:26:56
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iamZOG :
It’s called fault finding. And not realizing the problem is with them and their avoidance, not necessarily the relationship
2026-11-05 23:58:56
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Tucker :
My ex, who I suspect is a FA, discarded me in May and it was hard and then we met and got drinks in late August, and it was great. Then she texted me two days later and said she’d be open to talking more and spending time together, so we started texting and planned to go to dinner. Then she got sick and our plans kept getting pushed back but we kept texting. Then one day after about a month of us talking again, she cancelled our plans and said she was really struggling, so I said no worries and asked if there was anything I could do. She then pretty much ghosted me for a week and then said that she just never saw herself revisiting a romantic connection with me and that we needed to stop talking. It’s been so incredibly hard and I just want her back so badly
2026-11-01 23:47:02
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JESSE ELIZONDO 🥰❤️🌹 :
So we loose either way.
2026-11-04 15:04:59
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Ivamu adinma :
Ohh this PISSED ME OFF
2026-11-02 15:51:40
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Brittany :
I went back 3 different times fighting for “us” and being “understanding.”The 4th time, he shut down ( this past Thursday) …. I didn’t call or anything. I can’t… I’ve never experienced something like this but the discard is HORRENDOUS and I can’t do it anymore. I have such a huge heart and he knew his actions crushed me but he did it anyways.
2026-11-02 01:58:01
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Jen :
How about if they end it but then you get back together a week later because you apologize for your side of the fight? It doesn’t feel real we’re back together and things aren’t the same.
2026-11-02 00:25:41
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Nino :
I get so worked up about whether or not people actually like me that i push them away before i can find out and then use the distance as confirmation that i was never important to them in the first place
2026-11-02 09:59:41
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Hey Jude :
They are so frustrating
2026-11-04 05:10:58
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Happymama :
So if they are in therapy, is there any chance to get back together. It was so good until it was over.
2026-11-02 03:53:11
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HighRankKilo :
its exhausting just hearing this
2026-11-02 11:25:44
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Maddy 🇺🇲 🇲🇽 🇳🇿 :
hitting a little too close to home I fear
2026-11-02 12:26:32
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Sunny :
Can someone please answer me?
My ex is in a new relationship, and ever since then, he has been making things difficult for me through our son. I feel like I have no rights. He acts as if he hates me, constantly insulting and humiliating me.
I haven’t done anything to him. The only thing I sometimes do during arguments is bring up what he did to us. He got together with his new girlfriend three months after our breakup, and ever since then, his behavior has suddenly become absolutely awful.
I don’t understand why. I need help.🙏
2026-11-01 23:58:48
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