@lila.menopause.su: We learned to be capable, pleasant, organized, and not make a fuss. I’d keep the useful habits and drop the five-paragraph apology for needing support. Ask the question. Protect the bedtime. Eat a meal you enjoy. And get help with the everyday bits that keep becoming another job. For organizing meals without another complicated routine, I’d use Lila’s meal-planning help instead of starting from a blank page. Search Lila in the App Store and build a plan around your food preferences and dietary needs. Send this to the friend who keeps saying she doesn’t feel like herself. 💜 #perimenopause #over40 #womenshealth