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Cassy :
No. They feel better that they don’t have to comfort you or “tolerate” it anymore. I left him less than 48 hours ago and it was the biggest relief. I moved all my shit out in 2 hours with family and friends. I saved myself and I already feel better even though I thought he was my person.
2026-11-02 12:33:28
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happyjacquie888 :
My ex avoidant from a year ago reponded to my texts after 6 months ghosting. He was dating someone for 9 months and about to break up… I just got a whole slew of texts saying he’s not a good person he’s a coward he treated me like shit and he’s a bad boyfriend …. He left because he thought grass was greener and was overwhelmed by my emotions… but I think he’s realizing he’s the problem
2026-11-02 21:55:54
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Alexandria :
I stopped trying to understand avoidants and instead heal my anxious attachment
2026-11-02 22:36:20
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Ari Ðinh :
oh i alr know he dgaf
2026-11-02 17:16:07
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m4reliiii :
They do. Although it depends on if he’ll ever reach out to tell you. If he still wants your energy around him, he’ll try to convince you he’s changed and he knows what to do now, how to fix it all it’s nice to hear but you have to remember it’s not the truth. It’s far from the truth. He’ll miss how you made him feel the light you brought to his life. Yes he might realize he took you for granted but he’s still the same person and nothing is changing no matter how perfect his words might sound unfortunately. Just don’t let him stop you from moving on for your life. Try new things meet new people live for yourself. Whatever happened was not your fault avoidant men are lost and can’t figure out their own life don’t let him ruin yours!!
2026-11-02 17:09:53
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House of pain ⛓️ :
no absolutely not that was goal all along
2026-11-02 15:05:20
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aubreygrai :
No, they only ever care about themselves
2026-11-02 11:59:09
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elizabeth.khalilova :
Prolly not girl they’re disconnected from their hearts shis sad
2026-11-02 12:12:49
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allthefallenfigs :
Sometimes. Sometimes it takes years. Sometimes the pain of regret is too big that they avoid it their whole life.
2026-11-02 18:08:22
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v.l.bland :
In my experience, no
2026-11-02 05:35:53
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ocean_overthinking :
No, save your time
2026-11-02 22:35:50
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Lisa :
They compartmentalize everything, especially relationships. From my experience they care for you but are unable to tell you. If you get too close they will bail. I’ve been in this cycle 7 years and while not done, I am not chasing and feel like when I’m ready to walk I will be ok. They do miss you when you’re gone and feel immense shame for their actions. Go forth gently.
2026-11-02 14:14:23
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ꪶꪮꪶꪖ🦔 :
Silent reposts because he thinks all my reposts are for attention but in reality it’s just relatable
2026-11-02 22:28:23
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Lolitsyourmom :
Tbh mine has!!! I moved on with no fights or tears and it really threw him for a loop. If he’s an avoidant with an ego…. He will get angry if you’re happy. They need you to be miserable with them.
2026-11-02 17:26:09
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💜🖕insta mouthy🖕💜 :
Remember they knew what they was doing was wrong they just don't care
2026-11-02 18:28:17
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may :
They don’t
2026-11-02 19:48:11
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𝕾𝖙𝖊𝖕𝖍🗿 :
I’m sorry to say & so sorry you’re going thru this. It was the most soul shattering experience I’ve ever had. Unfortunately my avoidant ex came back after 2 weeks like nothing happened. So no I don’t think they even think about us like that
2026-11-02 11:12:29
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cathyjames722 :
No they don’t. They always think about themselves first
2026-11-02 12:25:50
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Amanda Yost :
NOPE. Take it from me don’t waste 20 years.
2026-11-02 12:20:31
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kelseydawn887 :
Only when you actually leave and resume your life without them. And even then maybe not.
2026-11-02 16:15:51
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kaitlynkmoo :
Hmm for me it wasn’t necessarily until I was emotionally withdrawn- I think I had just pulled back to the point where he noticed and began to reflect on his actions (ik sounds surprising right?). I understood we were weren’t perfect human beings but the one thing I always called him out on was when he was “pushing me away”. After some time, he’s admitted it. It sucks but don’t let a man consume you, remember that all that love and care you want to pour into him, you take those things and pour it into yourself. Sending best wishes!
2026-11-02 14:42:15
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🌸CountYourBlessings🌸 :
Nope they don’t and don’t listen to them! Don’t waist your time either. I went to see my long distance ex avoidant bf partner he never cared doesn’t want to get back together after he walked away and abandoned says he’s not ready for anything and a relationship is the last thing he wanted I waisted my money that trip and cried the whole four hours home and we argued all day through text!! THEN he friendzoned me so please don’t waist your time on an avoidant man
2026-11-02 12:50:22
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s3cr3tsp4m :
It’s been 4 years and its now hitting harder than it ever did, I was put through so much as a kid and put her through some of the things I went through and I wish it on nobody. She was only trying to help me with what little she knew herself and it breaks me knowing that version of myself put her through things she didn’t deserve. If I could have anything out of this life it would be taking all of her pain and giving it to myself to live with til i go knowing my sweet girl is okay. I miss her so much😔
2026-11-02 12:00:07
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Reallifedora :
How to know for sure they’re an avoidant
2026-11-02 16:58:36
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MzFrizzle :
Girl it’s a dog eat dog world…no
2026-11-02 17:04:10
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