@thebword_za: “When are you going to lower your standards?” GIRL, LOWER THEM TO WHERE? If you've ever been called too picky because you know what you want in a partner, a career, or your future, you probably know how frustrating it is to have your standards treated like the problem. Because the older you get, the more you realise that compatibility matters. Shared values matter. How someone treats you matters. And so does whether the life you're building actually feels right for YOU. You're allowed to want love without wanting just anybody. You're allowed to be open to compromise without compromising everything. And no… having standards doesn't mean you'll never make a mistake. It just means you're trying to make choices that align with the person you are. Have you ever been told you're too picky when you were really just being intentional? 🎧 Full episode out now on YouTube (The B Word), According to B podcast and wherever you listen to your podcasts. Link in bio! #AccordingToB #DatingStandards #WomenChoosingThemselves