I bought my first home when I was 24. My then husband was living with his gm. We’re now divorced… just sayin 🤷🏻♀️
2026-11-02 15:39:02
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Kasey :
Men were never really providers. They were the ones who made the rules that women couldn’t provide for themselves and then they stepped up to provide what they had taken away from us.
2026-11-03 09:01:29
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🖤robin🖤 :
I’ll find a way…
2026-11-11 02:32:49
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Meghan Kristine :
So many people told me not to buy a house or move forward in my career because I needed to wait for my husband. 🫢 I was single with zero prospects... what am I supposed to do? I ignored them and made myself a beautiful life. Coming up on 8 years single. Life is better every day!
2026-11-02 13:18:25
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Christine ❌ :
Where are these “provider” men?
2026-11-03 20:28:56
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Maureena :
“She bought a home…” AND PAID IT OFF. “She started a family…” AND SUCCESSFULLY RAISED IT. Not to mention, she is extremely emotionally mature AND fun. [Big LOL]
2026-11-02 17:34:06
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Teresacoxkuti :
I was in nursing school in my early 50’s. The guy I was dating recently took a 6-figure job in my town & asked if he could stay w/me for a week until he could find a place. I reluctantly said yes as long as he paid rent. A month later he still hadn’t found a place and when I asked him for $, he said “I wouldn’t charge you if you needed a place to stay.” Mind you my father& disabled son live with me. I broke up with him because he didn’t have a provider mentality. Some men have it,some don’t.
2026-11-03 03:33:05
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Tissy :
I love you for this! More men need to have this mind concept! Thank you! I’ve been through so much crap with men. I’ll never marry again. I have a partner. And happy to stay with him til I die. But I will never marry again. They cheated, abused, financially abused me. So. Sorry. This is what I achieved. You are welcome to be here (he doesn’t beat me, try to steal from me, cheat on me, and we barely argue.) It’s refreshing. But he knows. I’m not getting married. Men made me this way! Appreciate your video. I have a great job. Grandchildren and am truly content. And he’s a good one. Sucks that it took me to go through that. Ugh. Men. 😏😳💙
2026-11-03 01:14:26
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Wendy :
Men are not raised to be help mates to anyone. We are suposed to be their helpmate and do as they lead us. However they do not even do that. It is on our back and we are tired of the extra weight of carrying the man
2026-11-02 20:12:43
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left.me.drowning :
The only reason my husband and I have had any financial success is was because of me. Not him. He will tell you a different story but in reality it was all me. We would be broke as a joke if it was all on him.
2026-11-07 22:49:00
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misstex22 :
I never depend on a man . I’m independent. Yes I’m married , I don’t need a man . I want a man . There’s a huge difference.
2026-11-02 17:50:44
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Stephanie :
I've had several guys who promised to "provide" for me..so tell me why I'm the one with less money?? One guy..ugh.. tried to control on manipulate me because he gave me money..
2026-11-03 13:39:24
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Star CD :
The other problem is for the ones that come together a built a life together. Now she tried from the hard work the both of you built together. You stop looking at her the same and run after the one who did help you build shit
2026-11-02 13:09:31
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KoreenGib ❌ :
He worked but then spent it all. I had to raise the family on basically my income which caused us to struggle a lot but I made it work! But he’s me ex now and someone else’s problem ❤️
2026-11-02 23:06:22
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QuePasa :
All women in my family as far as I know were providers. I am sure many many more out there.
2026-11-03 17:56:07
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Carrie-edAwayDIY :
Nailed it!
2026-11-03 12:37:44
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anatexicana :
We got this
2026-11-03 16:59:00
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Shine Bright 💫✨💫 :
This is aooooo accurate❗️❗️❗️🙄
2026-11-02 16:52:36
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Estrada :
👏👏👏
2026-11-02 19:25:21
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ellek :
yes! historically, both men and women worked. Always. Anytime that wasn't the case, it was because a man forced the situation. He wasn't the provider, he was keeping her resources and claiming them as his own. what a strange world
2026-11-02 21:54:45
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Rebekah | Built different :
Yes sir bought my 1st home at 26 starting my nursing career. I do not know how to depend on anyone but me.
2026-11-02 17:26:28
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Mimi :
You bet...
2026-11-03 21:53:52
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birdiefly :
💯
2026-11-05 02:16:23
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pumpkin7493 :
I will always have my own financial security and will never put a mans name on anything. he will have his own place should god bring another man in my life.
2026-11-04 11:10:55
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I AM Universe Love :
Problem
2026-11-10 14:07:15
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