@matthaeusoki: Mind you, this is one of many times that this has happened to me. I urge MEN to start telling your stories. They’ll never know if you don’t speak up. #storytime #awareness #misandry #mensmentalhealth
a 40+ yr old very drunk lady once came up to me and started rubbing her hands down by chest. my friends thought it was funny. I did not
2026-11-02 15:39:09
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pookie 👻 :
that’s disgusting. I’m so sorry that happened to you
2026-11-02 14:28:41
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Reacher. :
The only reason the xual assault statistics look the way they do, is because men - don't know they've been assaulted.
if we carried the exact same standards for what constitutes assault? it would look drastically different.
2026-11-02 14:37:07
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Sadbh :
It’s so sad how most men don’t even know they have been SAed like it’s normal, it’s the same for women.
2026-11-02 14:46:13
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Max :
The problem is a lot of women believe boys can’t get SAd. It also doesn’t help that people react with stuff like „you’re lucky“ or „I wish that was me“. During school some girls thought an erection was consent, even though it’s uncontrolled
2026-11-02 17:37:56
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Kal :
I blame men for this! And hear me out, the only reason why it’s not taken seriously is bc men set this system up.. they are the one that will celebrate their friend if a women does this to him and call him weird for complaining about it.. in this society it’s seen as more weird for a man to complain about attention from women weather it’s wanted or not. And it all goes back to homophobia and patriarchy.
2026-11-06 22:49:03
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tashabaitwa :
Sa is definitely a gendered issue regardless
2026-11-02 20:06:37
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roksi :
That is so disgusting and inappropriate. I’m so sorry you went through that ❤️
2026-11-02 17:00:43
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Jes :
so awful sorry this happened to you, even next to your own partner it shows how evil people can be. however dont minimise this into a human issue, i lost my best friend she was ****** after she lost her life at the hands of this man. men rarely fear for their life in moments like this and very rarely lose it. we should speak on this and this is a very real issue that happens to men but please dont paint it as an equal fight, that doesn’t need to be done for you to be taken seriously
2026-11-02 15:57:12
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Jahneillll_rowee :
I'm so sorry that's genuinely disgusting 😔
2026-11-02 16:46:27
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M I S S L A R Z :
i’m so sorry that is digusting omg
2026-11-02 18:00:08
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M🇵🇰 :
i would say a hand on the shoulder is standerd flirting but wen going to neck is wen it got too far. SOME girls think guys r just sex wanting creatures which is wrong.
2026-11-02 15:25:19
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OC5 🏴 :
Problem is men will just shrug it off
2026-11-02 17:11:54
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RabbyKhan :
The Mind I Became by Cal Hollins is about a question I keep coming back to: how much of who we are is actually who we chose to become, and how much is what we learned to be?
2026-11-03 23:25:33
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·༻Mads༺· :
It’s true. It’s so sad that men can’t/don’t feel like they can come forward with their stories. We all preach equality until it’s this.
2026-11-02 17:03:29
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nima 🎧🫧 :
oh my gosh im so sorry :( hope you’re okay
2026-11-02 15:57:53
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Zahirah Evitt C.Hyp :
Damn that is wild disrespectful
2026-11-02 15:56:20
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Ella :
I'm sorry this happened to you. I hope you reported her.
2026-11-02 19:38:10
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Fionnuala :
Im so sorry i hope your doing okay
2026-11-02 15:50:55
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youstink🫶🏻 :
Evil doesn't have a gender. Anyone can be a creep and I'm really sorry you experienced this🫂 She should be held accountable 100%
2026-11-02 19:43:23
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jj_so_cool :
Evil knows no gender.
2026-11-02 20:34:40
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🇳🇬🇳🇬aothegreat🇬🇧🇬🇧 :
Its even worse that men don’t think they can be r*ped either, assault and sexual assault in any form should be classed and recognised both ways
2026-11-02 17:52:16
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francesca.hue :
I’m very sorry this happened to you, that is absolutely not okay! I agree that sexual violence is a human issue, but that doesn't mean it's not also a gendered issue. Both things can be true. We also need to consider the countless amounts of women who never come forward, never report what happened to them and never feel comfortable speaking about their experiences. So suggesting that the numbers would suddenly be much more even if more men spoke up is pure speculation. Women also massively underreport sexual violence, often because of shame, trauma, not being believed or the belief that nothing will even come of reporting it. If every woman reported I can assure you that the numbers would not be even. You cannot assume that male underreporting somehow closes that statistical gap while overlooking the massive amount of women who are also suffering in silence.
On top of this: there’s a clear power dynamic that comes into play when we are talking about violence against women. As yourself if you are scared to walk the streets alone in fear of being attacked? Do you walk around with your car keys lodged in between ur fingers? Have u ever had to pretend ur on the phone to someone in an uber because you don’t want to engage in conversation? Men have ALWAYS had control and power over women that implements real fear. Male victims are a thing but if we care so much, let’s speak about that as a singular topic rather than using it simply to undermine the constant and exhausting experience women face regularly.
2026-11-02 19:27:08
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ROMANA :
this is so weird I hope you're okay
2026-11-02 23:08:35
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TieganPresley💋🐆🎵 :
I’m so sorry that’s disgusting hope u r ok 😕
2026-11-02 18:33:02
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