You are so right, and if you think of it, they drain your energy. Since I stopped reacting and realised most people actions has nothing to do with me, my life has been calm.
2026-11-02 20:30:24
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I want to get here 😭😭 I hate being angry
2026-11-02 17:52:36
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Tatasheoflagos :
Becoming this version of myself took alot of work .
2026-11-02 18:34:08
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Growing with CheChe :
And they will never stop once they know your triggers
2026-11-02 22:04:57
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𝓐𝓶𝔂🌺 :
yeh but when u don't talk or put them in there place it will cause disrespect or see finish
2026-11-03 22:19:03
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GlamTopUp :
I have been like this my whole life, my only reaction is always silence and it gives me peace
2026-11-02 21:04:33
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Just Derah 🍁🍂 :
Omg yesss😭😭 they start getting pissed when you don’t react
2026-11-02 14:57:48
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softlyoma :
It also works on people you care so much about, and when you stop reacting to care more, you get to find out you’ve been the only one who care about them more than they do care about you. For instance, You ask them about their issues, you ask them how they feel, you want to know the next step of their actions. You always have a thing to say when you together. You just genuinely care for them. But just take a pause to stop asking them these things, just be the one to stop talking first and realize how much they pull back also cos they didn’t get the reaction from you the way you normally would, and they drift away from you.
2026-11-03 08:24:33
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RHOÉ•WOMAN 📍Thrift in Ipaja :
A lot of things gets to me but tbh my reaction is always silence, you see that reaction, no one is getting it out of me….. I just label you in my head and I move on Shikena
2026-11-03 22:14:39
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Abdul🪫 :
and , they start making things up about you to feel better about themselves 😂, but what I don't like is the smear campaign
2026-11-03 06:19:19
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Elsa ✨ :
The level of calmness I have now would've helped me escape alot of shenanigans in hindsight but I'm glad I now know better
2026-11-02 19:45:08
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🫧🎀NICOLE🎀🫧 :
I learnt the hard way…
2026-11-03 19:39:54
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Zinash4real💕🎀 :
Let’s be honest this is hard for reallllll!
2026-11-03 09:26:22
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Chef Nancy :
Silence has a voice!
2026-11-02 21:36:44
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Winniyyy💋💋 :
I really want to get to that point of no reaction 🥺 I don’t like being angry
2026-11-02 20:13:43
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SUPREME111💛💚 :
Lemme see your style please 😩
2026-11-03 20:34:32
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Chef Demi ✧ :
BE STOIC!
2026-11-03 11:27:45
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The Raven 🐦⬛ :
Saving this for the rest of this week cause i am pissed off and i have big things in my life and someone is pissing me off man
2026-11-03 20:23:38
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Lobaloba_Commenter 001 🇳🇬 :
I just say OKAY this days 👌🏽”everyone knows what their doing deep down!!!!👌🏽👌🏽,so I won’t let anyone disturb my Peace of Mind 👌🏽👌🏽❤️
2026-11-02 20:21:42
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NiFeeee🧸🎀 :
Thank you for this 🥰
2026-11-02 19:07:14
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Ms. Kika🎀 :
So true but I’m trying to stop reacting but it’s not easy fr
2026-11-02 19:44:44
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Rola❤️ :
Exactly what I do😁
2026-11-03 16:20:23
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Juliette braided wig :
Nne teach us ooo
2026-11-02 22:02:57
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Naomi🤭💞👿 Jason :
I love your tattoo
2026-11-02 23:24:47
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BRIH|BAG VENDOR IN LEKKI :
Omo this level ehn want to get here
2026-11-02 20:58:16
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