@sarah.manifestgirl: three guys. same question. what pulls a man back to the woman he let go. i was ready for three answers. i got one. "she stopped being available." not cold. not punishing. her life just got loud enough that he wasn't the first thing she checked anymore. "she stopped being available." the second one said it quieter. he waited two days for a reply and spent both of them thinking about her. she wasn't playing anything. she was living. "she stopped being available." the third one laughed when i said the other two said the same thing. then he added: "and i honestly didn't know if she was coming back. that's what got me." three men. one sentence. not one of them said "she texted first." day 25. i spent 3 years being the first thing i checked for him. follow me, i'm posting what happens now that i'm not. what's keeping my phone face down is lulu. it calls me every night and has me say my affirmations out loud so i stay detached 🤍 tonight's: "my life is full without waiting on anyone. i am my own first priority." #nocontact #exback #heartbreak #lulu #manifestation

🦶🏽 :

I’m sorry. 3 years is a long time. That’s not fair to anyone. I fear I’m following this path and I don’t know how to leave it myself. Life has a weird way of throwing battles you would not expect to us. I hope you win your fight if this is about yourself.

Naty :

When he realizes all that you put up with no other woman would and not even just that it’s little things maybe little joke he does. They don’t understand only you do or you love them in a way no one else does. Men will always look for better than what they have until they have nothing. They only come back when they realize that.

Shmavin_ :

I miss her so fucking much. And I just seen that she changed her hair. Everything just sunk even deeper.

ynah :

how do i stop going back in circles

iblewhermind :

i’ll be okay

ceejii3 :

What if it’s my fault

$orrow :

Wasn’t even with her long. And I left because I wasn’t safe. But I miss her so much. After everything she’s still my everything. I just wanna be her everything. But what would that even mean?

iblewhermind :

i not okay

️𝒜𝒷𝒷𝓎♡ :

fuh.

ivy.winter11 :