Dusty Thunder
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josiewells123 :
What about her mother? They could do mother dances, I’ve seen that in weddings and it’s so beautiful 🤍
2026-11-02 21:11:38
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ProtectLovePeaceKindness :
who is walking her down the aisle, that's the person that she should have that dance with, it is her day and she shouldn't allow others thoughts influence her decision on who she has that dance with
2026-11-02 20:55:45
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MissyKY :
Omg. You can dance with someone that has been there for you or not. If not, don’t take that dance away from him and his mother.
2026-11-02 20:48:24
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Wicked one :
Danced with my father (with whom I had no relationship) because of how it would “look” if I didn’t. Relationship never happened. Huge regret! Most people will already know about OP’s situation… let hubs dance.
2026-11-02 23:27:24
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Beelzebeth :
They could have a special dance at the rehearsal dinner. I’ve heard the idea of saving the speeches for the rehearsal so it’s with just the very closest people and saves time on wedding day in the reception.
2026-11-03 00:51:24
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Amanda Myers McGinty :
DO not take away from your husbands memories
2026-11-02 20:45:01
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✨️AJ✨️ :
Taking this memory away from her future husband and his mom could cause waves she's not ready for. Her mom or another father figure would be a great stand in, even if her dad is in attendance.
2026-11-02 23:26:56
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Banana73 :
Why should the fiance miss out on something special for them? Your choice to dance or not is your choice alone.
2026-11-02 20:43:15
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Cody Earnshaw :
ascon 2 if you don’t allow him to because it’s like you’re punishing him for having a relationship with his mom
2026-11-02 20:48:05
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xacular 🇨🇦🏳️🌈🍉🤘 :
As someone who is also mostly estranged from their bio dad and is currently engaged I will be inviting my dad and if he comes that's great but if he doesn't I won't be heartbroken. That being said I'm not planning on having him walk me down the aisle and I won't be having a special dance with him but if my fiancé wants to dance with his mom I would support his joy and his desires. 🥰👍
2026-11-03 00:38:16
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Chelsie Grinter :
if her dad hasn't been in the picture for a while now shouldn't everyone or mostly everyone you invite to the wedding know that about OPs dad ? So what is the big issue. as a fiancé planning a wedding right now I could neeeever take that memory and opportunity away from my future husband . Blows my mind to be that selfish 🤯
2026-11-02 21:58:55
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Starch Boutique :
my wedding is 3-27-27 it is a big weding. my fiancee and is mother will have a mother/ son dance. my father will be at our wedding that man is lucky he got an invite. I will walk myself down the aisle(something he is throwing about) he has never tried to have a relationship with me. I the last 8 years we have talked twice once at my mother funeral 2018l and the other at brother funeral 2023. how he feels about not getting that opportunity is the lest of my worries
2026-11-02 22:45:27
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Zandra HOK 🤡~🇺🇲~💩~🆘 :
my daughter has a terrible relationship with her birth father. she's asked her step father for his last name. she's already told me and him she will have a mother daughter dance
2026-11-02 23:18:50
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jaime leigh :
I got married at 21. My ex danced with his mom. I did not dance with my dad. (Step, but raised me from before I was a year old.) Don't punish them because your dad sucks.
2026-11-02 22:18:48
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Tacticalsweetheart :
Do a mother daughter dance vs a father daughter dance
2026-11-02 22:43:55
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kelly317 :
I like the comments about a mother’s dance &/or dancing with whoever walks her down the aisle. OP could also dance with her fiancés father if he’s still in the picture.
2026-11-02 22:48:45
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Blackthorn Crow :
This is one of those situations where the dad will either make or break their relationship in how he responds.
2026-11-02 22:39:57
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Gillian :
I think the most correct answer is to have a conversation with Fiance to discuss what his thoughts are. And then consider an alternative to dancing with OP father, be it her mother or uncle or fiances father as well. She’s NTA unless she dictates what fiance can or cannot do
2026-11-02 21:41:33
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Sandra :
YTA. As a wife, I would never deprive my husband or his mom of that privilege because of my lack of relationship. As a mom, I would be devastated if I couldn’t have mom/son dance because of that. What else would husband have to sacrifice in the future?
2026-11-02 21:04:21
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Blah fairy :
I didn't have mine dance with his mom because I didn't have anyone for me at my wedding. It made me really sad and well aware I didn't have a dad.
2026-11-02 20:48:32
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little nightmare :
is someone walking you down the aisle? if they are ask them. could do short dances with dad, grandad, uncle or who ever you said to one song. Definitely don't stop you fiancee dancing with his mom as that's very mean to him.
2026-11-02 21:49:32
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Tina Ditter :
My dad wasn’t a dancer so my father daughter dance was with my FIL. Don’t take the moment away from your husband
2026-11-02 23:03:49
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DJ Purple Lettuce💜🥬 :
There’s a series on Netflix where this exact situation was brought up 😅
2026-11-02 21:09:19
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Rocketlass :
OP you DO NOT have to invite your father...i never did due to the lack of relationship we have, my stepdad gave me away instead & I dont regret one single moment or decision i made 👍
2026-11-02 20:47:11
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Jackie mad :
I would never deny my husband of this even though both of my parents have passed. Also when I did get married my dad didn’t attend (first wedding) and still would not have denied my husband that dance if he wanted it.
2026-11-02 20:59:31
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