@abbyrodmanpsychotherapy: Sometimes facing the reality of a partner’s affair is too painful so we make excuses, rebrand it as a “mistake” — or just basically minimize the whole situation in order to make it suit our psyches. But the longer the affair continued, the more depth there was to it. The longer it went on, the closer the cheater and the affair partner became. Promises were made. Plans were discussed. YOU were discussed. Staying in a relationship after an affair is a choice only you can make. But please don’t look away from the harsh truths. If you do that now, you’ll come to regret it later. #marriage #infidelity #cheating