@soulserenitywithrachel: Sometimes the answer isn’t unclear. It’s just not the answer you wanted, and another conversation keeps the possibility of a different one alive. #therapist #miamitherapist #detachment #mindsetshift #relationshiptips

Lex🌈🌷 :

I’m hoping the conversation will turn into another chance, or just a fresh start.

Rockie :

I actually needed closure, she didn’t want to give it to me. I ended up sending her flowers on her birthday as my final act of love. Mentally I was placing them at her grave. It really helped bring me closure.

faithTheodora :

pls just look up The Audacity to Upgrade by Stella Vane you’ll thank me later

xydan7 :

My therapist was pushing for detachment. I've done that 3 times in my life and she somehow ends up in my proximity and each time I struggle to interject and say something. I hate it. 😭

Britni Mize :

I didn’t think I needed to have a last conversation. But I did it for me. And it did help me quite a bit but I’m past the “wanting another chance” phase as well.

BabyDaddyJay :

delete this, I need to be delusional a little bit longer 😭😭

Fabrlc22 :

i genuinely wish i read The Abandoned Laws of Life by O. Carter earlier

Dani :

Why are you talking so loud!!!! I just got on here today!

Mulannn :

Rachel. Not rn

Harley G :

How do you detach & not want closure from the guy you fell in love with and who you created a baby with? He’s ghosted me & I’ve been completely alone during this but yet I’m still hoping he’d call or text so we can actually talk because I didn’t have a choice, one minute he was there then the next he was gone….

user5633338458154 :

I need closure so I can move on. I think after the court finalizes the paperwork In february I might get some. 🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️😔😔

nan_cci :

I need to understand why for closure And maybe in the bottom of my heart lowkey hoping for chance🤷🏻‍♀️makes me feel a little psycho😂

Em Smith :

I’ve noticed that feeling like I don’t really need closure anymore coincides with the conclusion that I’m not really interested in going back. Suddenly closure feels unimportant

Sydney Wright :

I'm not looking to get back together, and honestly that hurts to even say. But I would like to have that conversation to say the things I didn't get to say because the breakup was not my choice and was not something I had seen coming. I was blindsided and couldn't mentally think of what to say, but now that it's been a month I do. Is it bad to reach out to say my peace and leave it at that?

Izzy Ward :

Both? Can it be both 🥺

Tales Pugedo :

i know it sounds dramatic to talk about a book in the comments, but the alversett effect by nora alversett flipped a switch in my brain that i honestly cannot turn off

manu :

Gurrrrrl. I’m using this…

imlanore :

A second chance if possible.

Victoria Allen :

Can it be both? I am hopeful we can try again but if hes truly done and happier without me I could walk away

Heidi 🪐 🏎 :

oh.

butterfly baddie :

Angie🧿 :

No I wanna have a conversation about when they actually started cheating and when they thought they could have their cake and eat it too

lydia :

oh i’m not hungry

lex 🪩 :

It was both and I got neither lol

Cynt :

I don’t need closure. I’m just hoping we can have that one last conversation to make her realize what she lost and have a fresh new start. I know I need to walk away though.