Yes feel your feelings, it’s so important that your children understand how emotions are normal. Honestly the best thing you can do for them is exactly what you are already doing, I am so sorry people feel brave enough to tell you any different.
2026-11-03 22:38:15
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NOMI :
we need to normalize not telling people how to grief. People grieve and cope differently. especially something as major as this, and ESPECIALLY if one has not experienced this level of grief.
2026-11-02 23:33:18
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Michelle Bailey :
You have every right girl. Keep your head up
2026-11-03 17:44:43
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Amanda W :
They have the best version of you then can possibly have right now and that is ENOUGH. None of y'all have lived TODAY before.
2026-11-03 16:40:52
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Lani Denges :
And you are absolutely allowed to be sad, he was their dad but he was your husband first. There are so many memories and feelings between just YOU TWO. You are allowed to hurt mama 🩷
2026-11-02 23:45:20
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Sammi_1457 :
Hey you get to be upset! I just buried my boyfriend Saturday. It’s hard probably the hardest thing we will ever have to do
2026-11-03 00:16:34
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Shawana Maples :
Nurse Dye you are loved here!!! You and your girls ...
2026-11-02 23:49:17
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smartsaver346 :
The enemy & the VA failed that man & I am so sorry for you
2026-11-02 22:46:29
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messybeans86 :
i was 35 with an 18 month old. his family called dcfs because I was sad. they didn't care that I coached sports, went to work, took him to therapy and grief groups, and did mom stuff daily. but because I cried, I'm unfit
2026-11-03 12:59:03
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worm :
you are allowed to be everything you need to be. Grief is a messy process that never ends, and you should be able to voice your uncomfortable feelings and thoughts. If grief is uncomfortable for people who aren’t grieving, i just want them to think about how awful and uncomfortable for the griever. There isn’t a right way to loose someone you love, and i am so sorry you have to get your motherhood thrown in your face. That is so so unfair. Thinking about you
2026-11-03 01:11:53
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Ashley Turpen :
AMEN!!!!! I feel the exact same way!!!! 💔
2026-11-03 03:52:24
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RikiTiki1994 :
It is a special kind of hell!!!
2026-11-02 22:20:04
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Kristina Taylor 🥀 :
Preach baby 🫂
2026-11-03 06:06:07
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Adonis Mason :
don't worry about them people don't let them make u feel bad
2026-11-03 07:37:47
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SharonStephens :
Exactly.
2026-11-03 07:31:44
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Rhii :
me too I hate it like no shit 💔💔💔
2026-11-02 22:07:10
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Ashley 🚒❤️🔥🫶🏻👻 :
I’m going to ALWAYS comment to people who are insensitive saying this shit to you. Just because your kids need you doesn’t mean you can’t be depressed and grieve. I’m so sorry people say this to you
2026-11-03 03:49:38
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Kari McCoy :
you’re doing a kickass job. you can be an amazing mother & a grieving widow at the same time, like you said. Praying for ya’ll everyday ❤️
2026-11-03 10:40:54
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MiMi :
Oh babe! You are allowed to mourn all of that! Fuckkkk all of them! You can mourn as long as you need to!
2026-11-02 23:57:46
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brandydish23 :
Your videos help me so much. 28 year old widow and you put how I feel into words!!!! 3 kids 11, 5 , 4. Been 6 months…
2026-11-03 00:41:41
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Amy Michelle :
I’m still so angry and sad about my husband…he decided to leave me here out here winging life. My living son is grown. I’m just here by myself. I pray for you every time you come across my screen ♥️
2026-11-03 00:51:45
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80castilloda :
As a veteran wife here, we will stand by you. It is fine to show how you feel.
2026-11-03 01:18:10
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Ace :
Ma’am, there’s no need to worry about what others think or say about your grieving, you take as long as you need. Losing your person, best friend and husband is something only some have gone through. Everyone is different, it hits everyone differently some may never get through it (idk) but I have one of the best people I know that has gone through this loss. All I can say is I know it’s hard, I feel bad for you. You’re doing the best you can and that’s all you can. Happy belated birthday
2026-11-03 07:15:52
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Haileebrownn0319 :
My children were 3 months old and 2 year old when their dad took his life
2026-11-03 12:07:58
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Lisa 🍄 :
You're allowed to grieve however you feel necessary. People never know what they would do, say, or how they would feel in your situation. I'm praying you find peace love, you're doing an amazing job. There's no handbook on grieving, you're doing great. 💕
2026-11-03 13:42:48
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