@huntercolier: She's meant for you. That's why God's testing you. Before God sends her, He's asking three things from you. Stay faithful when nothing's happening. Keep building when nobody's watching. And become him even if He never sends her. It sounds like a long time. It sounds like a lot of work with no guarantee. And it sounds like the test was never about her. "He humbled you and tested you, to know what was in your heart." Deuteronomy 8:2 Because it's much easier to pass a test with her as the prize than to pass it with nothing on the other side. God doesn't test your patience. He tests your foundation. Because sooner or later the woman God has for you, if marriage is His plan, will be standing on the foundation you built before she got there. Send this to the brother who's in the middle of the test. If you want to learn how to build it before she gets there, follow. I write it every day.