@dealingwithdes: They don’t have a problem with your work. They have a problem with the fact they can’t control you anymore. Funny how you were considered a great employee when you said yes to everything, worked beyond your hours and never questioned a thing. But the moment you started setting boundaries, suddenly you’re difficult, uncooperative or no longer a team player. Here’s something I’ve learned after more than 20 years working in corporate and HR. When people can no longer control your behaviour, sometimes they try to control how others perceive you. Protect your reputation. Document important conversations. Choose your battles wisely. You can stand up for yourself without giving anyone ammunition to use against you. Comment SPEAK UP below if you’re no longer prepared to be walked all over at work. I’m Des. I offer workplace tarot and oracle readings combined with practical guidance from over 20 years in corporate and HR. Book your personal workplace reading via the link in my bio. #WorkplaceTarot #ToxicWorkplace #WorkplacePolitics #WorkplaceBoundaries #tarot
This feels so validating. When I told my boundaries I was called ‘not empathetic and not understanding, which are an attitude problem’ by my attendant in front of my mentor🥲
2026-11-03 09:28:27
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Dudu :
Speak up.
2026-11-03 06:10:58
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GODS mouthpiece :
were kingdom ambassadors
2026-11-03 02:26:20
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Vic8 :
Protect my Job and let the manipulator Management falls down❤️🙏
2026-11-03 00:14:39
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Ponies :
First comment so it must be for me 😭😂 but yes this has happened. I’ve put boundaries up now
2026-11-03 00:05:14
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ኩዚ :
fact
2026-11-03 05:29:06
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Premkumar Prem :
Amen
2026-11-03 11:58:45
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Camel :
Speak up 🙏
2026-11-03 01:23:35
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Ponies :
Omgosh actually I got exactly this same reading 2 weekends ago! Same thing. Bonus I’m Māori so definitely for me 💜💜💜
2026-11-03 00:06:55
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HBK :
Amen
2026-11-03 02:17:29
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Safia boother :
❤️❤️
2026-11-03 00:13:53
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