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Ya Zina Ziya 🇩🇿🇬🇧 :

Men back then were secure in their masculinity. Nowadays, some men are so insecure that they see a woman's past as a threat to their manhood.

Tee 🧚‍♀️💞 :

Me too, if he’s not a virgin l won’t marry him 😌

Ali :

their is a difference between marriage and adultery

Muxi :

the problem is u r comparing Those women to nowadays women

Mudni :

It is completely fine to have this preference. If you have protected your modesty, wanting a spouse who has done the same is a fair and natural desire. Islam gives you the full right to choose a partner who gives you peace of mind. You are right that we are only human. The examples of the Prophet (PBUH) show us what is noble, but they do not force you to make choices your heart cannot bear. He married Khadijah, who was married before, but he also married Aisha, who was not. Both choices are blessed, and preference is allowed. The message of these videos is not to force you to marry someone with a past. It is simply a reminder not to judge those who have made mistakes and sincerely asked Allah for forgiveness. Allah has covered their past, so as Muslims, we should not dig it up or look down on them. You do not have to marry someone if their past brings you doubt. Marriage must be built on absolute trust and comfort. Do not feel guilty for knowing your own limits People often use words like "insecurity" when they do not understand a boundary. Wanting a wife who has guarded her modesty, is about fairness and shared values. It is not about a threat to your manhood. A man who stays away from sin has the full right to seek a spouse who did the same. It brings peace to the home when both husband and wife are on the exact same page about their past.

fiction :

if she was married before it is different but if she was in a haram relationship then i don't prefer that for anyone

Ys :

What about aisha?

Mastani...123 :

subhanALLAH

[🇮🇱🪓🔻🌹] ܕܠܝܠܐ :

As a woman myself, it doesn’t matter was it a woman or a man who committed zina, for me it depends what happened, why, how, did he repent, does he regret it, or he still secretly misses it or proud of it. I will def look at the person now, if he wants to tell me, its his choice. But for me its important to know, what if he rped someone for example, or what if his past was rlly bad and now he might have any illness. Thats a completely diff case

TAQWA :

thanks bro

Putra🇲🇾🇵🇸 :

Actually, you can't even ask if they have a relationship before because why are you asking about their sins?

ObiTo47 :

Right I’ll do the same inshallah

🔥🛞 :

Den🇦🇱 :

subhanallah its so hard to do that 🥲

EsmaG :

Amin🤲🏼

Ali HA :

لكنّك لم تكن متزوجاً، أليس كذلك؟

qurankarem2016 :

purples786896 :

꧁𓊈𒆜 𝐀𝐁𝐃𝐈-𝐀𝐋𝐈 𒆜𓊉꧂ :

i like older women

nav :

The difference is they were married these girls now days bfs

ittkawtar :

I never saw someone talking about mens virginity or criticizing them for it

malick elias :

And she had her own children as well before marrying the prophet.

sirsmiple :

a true brother would never let a sister walk alone

✮ :

khadija AS was a pure woman

NaoyaTate🥊 :

Can you judge people for their decision in who to marry? No I personally have nothing against marrying a woman older than me but judging people who want a woman who is a virgin just like them is wrong you don't have to live with the woman they marry