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kelsey woodham :
it's a red flag. I was a user and it's absolutely a red flag. 3 years clean now tho
2026-11-02 23:47:44
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Emmy :
from a recovering addict standpoint (5years in March) when addicts begin using again they avoid anyone who might be able to see it and pinpoint it. my mom always knew when I relapsed bc I stopped calling bc I knew she'd hear it in my voice
2026-11-03 04:40:48
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Jaclyn René :
I agree with you!! Protect the kids, not the adult.
2026-11-02 23:39:26
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Bethany :
As a woman long-term recovery, I would say that I most likely agree with you, but also keep in mind that recovery is also about a racing years if not decades worth a bad habits and replacing them with new ones. So in other words, it’s very possible that she could be doing the right things, but she’s just not accustomed to or has relearned proper communication skills. But also it could definitely be assigned that she’s not doing any of the things she needs to do to be with her kid.
2026-11-04 21:34:44
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MomOfTwo :
sober now for 10 years I cant go few hours with out wanted to call talk to my kids when im at work I hate my oldest almost 6 is in school I volunteer to come read to class cuz I hate being away from her for so long
2026-11-04 19:25:23
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faith harmony <3 :
bot relevant but I didnt know you were a seahawks fan!!💕
2026-11-04 12:31:37
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Shirley :
I'm a recovering addict. 27 years clean. I've never forgotten where I came from though. One of my signs when I was using is I would go ghost. I wouldn't contact anyone. Not my family, not my best friend, nobody. She's using or drinking, whatever she does. 🚩🚩
2026-11-03 13:10:14
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missAmanda :
It’s a red flag absolutely 17 years clean and sober and so thankful I didn’t have kids until I had been clean for 8 years
2026-11-03 01:05:43
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Maggie Toth577 :
as an x addict myself, I would be cautious. it might be a whole different situation but I know when I was using i avoided everyone and everything I possibly could BUT THAT MIGHT NOT BE THE CASE. Again be cautious.
2026-11-03 00:15:21
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Terrbear 🐻 :
Look, as the daughter of an addict and a mother myself, if I ever lost my kids, I would be so loud about all of the accomplishments I’ve made in steps towards getting my kids back. And for sure when my mom disappeared, she back on her bs
2026-11-03 00:34:56
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kc2019 Halsey :
you are probably correct, I going to hope for the best though...
2026-11-02 23:40:04
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J.J.Draper :
are you allowed to contact the sober living house to check in?
2026-11-03 06:44:07
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Rebecca Sullivan369 :
No, you're right. Don't give people the benefit of the doubt when it comes to the safety of kids. She knows what she has to do to see them and she's obviously not prioritizing that. Otherwise she'd call you back asap
2026-11-03 00:09:54
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Hallie Linn Clarke :
I would hope for the best, but be prepared for the worst. As someone who has people in their life dealing with addiction, I have to remember that addiction is a disease and that there is only so much that I can do. They have to want to have sobriety and being active in being sober.
2026-11-03 06:23:50
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probably_not_katelyn :
And also, if she ISN'T using, the problem still remains that if she isn't calling back, she still isn't treating getting her kids back as a priority.
2026-11-03 14:28:38
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Meg :
When I was relapsing you couldn’t get a hold of me. That’s how my friends and family knew something was up. But I want to leave her space to have legitimately forgot to call you back… but if it was kids on the line I would call back ASAP if I wasn’t relapsing.
2026-11-03 03:15:48
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snookie :
Yep. No doubt
2026-11-02 23:59:18
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Lian Castro :
you are so right! and it seems to me she wants to be with the kids bc maybe she want to feel something like love or affection for her own selfish needs.
2026-11-03 00:01:56
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Michelle :
I will push back a little on the "she would just do it if she wanted it". its not that easy. that being said, people who can't do it or dont often arent actually ready to get clean and commit to all the things. so yeah, id be worried too
2026-11-03 02:13:28
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Jen Ambermane Johnso :
When my husband got custody of his daughter, it was called “temporary”. Temporary turned into 12 years, when she turned 18. Some moms just don’t give a 💩, despite what comes out of their mouths.
2026-11-03 17:51:47
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Shannon M615 :
I don't get it. How do people live without a job? Help me understand.
2026-11-03 02:02:14
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megangroup312 :
Call her sober living place and have them do a drug test
2026-11-03 12:34:33
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Sunbyrd :
Yeah ghosting is a serious red flag when dealing with an addict.
2026-11-03 00:41:07
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Keri :
I hate to say it, but I think Joyce hasn’t hit bottom yet. 😞
2026-11-03 00:37:27
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probably_not_katelyn :
Halloween weekend is also prime substance-use time
2026-11-03 14:25:59
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