@thechronictruths: Since birth or… #angrydaughter #scapegoat #innerchild #childhoodtrauma #generationaltrauma

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teri_on_an_island
Teri :
I always knew, but didnt stop chasing her love until I was 45.
2026-11-03 06:39:48
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mgxrc0
𝕞𝕘 ♡ :
I don't remember a time thinking she did
2026-11-03 02:20:32
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awakened718
Jæ :
I knew all along but I accepted it and saw I wasn’t the problem at 31. And gave up for good. I will never be good enough because she feels that way about herself and I am not responsible for her feelings. I was the child.
2026-11-03 21:37:22
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gingerb4
Alex :
Trying to explain this to someone who’s family is genuinely loving and caring is impossible
2026-11-03 13:05:06
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hopejackson097
Hope Jackson :
Watching her love her first born, first born grandchild and first born great grandchild like the rest of us didn’t even exist….the year I got coat hangers as my Christmas gift….i stopped chasing at 48….10 years no contact
2026-11-03 23:32:14
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katiejpg
KupKatie🧁 :
Late 30's - once I had my own kids and discovered what true motherly love was
2026-11-03 02:34:59
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remaining.nameless
Nameless :
known since childhood, she preferred my siblings.
2026-11-03 12:35:58
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moodymagick8ball
MoodyMagick8ball :
I always knew but I accepted in my 30s and went no contact.
2026-11-03 23:46:47
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beverlycat0
Beverly :
I don’t know but I humiliated myself chasing her
2026-11-03 15:08:05
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brittaguerrero6
Britta Guerrero :
There has always been favorites. I knew I wasn’t one of them.
2026-11-03 03:38:12
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justmissyxo
Justmissyxo :
When she told me herself. She told me I love you, but I don’t like you. 🥺 Things like that you just don’t forget.
2026-11-03 05:40:27
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hurricanesassy
hurricanesassy :
she wants to be me and yet my biggest opp
2026-11-03 13:17:13
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goofygirl886
goofygirl88 :
Always new just was hard to accept
2026-11-03 04:26:41
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1onefunrn
1OneFunRN :
I think I always knew but I didn’t accept and integrate it until age 57. It’s been a long road.
2026-11-03 03:02:44
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nakiaburkemedium
Nakia :
13. It's amazing to me too that so many of us are also the "angry, troubled, black sheep" and also the scape goats while our poor mothers are the eternal victims. I finally went no contact after 51 years. I'm free.
2026-11-03 22:35:30
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shellrn2b
❌Shelly :
I don't ever recall feeling like I mattered to her at all
2026-11-03 03:49:45
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amberwave4
amberwave4 :
Probably 6 years old. Being the eldest daughter, Cinderella daughter , one of four sisters and always treated like a slave and abused. I realize she never wanted me or loved me. I was supposed to be a”ported but my grandmother made her keep me… I always wonder if that’s why I was treated with so much pain and hurt.
2026-11-03 21:42:18
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heatherreed70
Heather Reed :
When I told her I was depressed and she told me I was being dramatic
2026-11-03 19:10:14
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tiffanytheen5
Jeep Girl :
3. I remember watching Dumbo and the scene where the mommy elephant cradled him through the door and crying because my mom wouldn't do any of that for me.
2026-11-03 02:57:38
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laurenmzap
Lauren Z :
45. She spent my entire life gaslighting me into thinking it was my fault.
2026-11-03 05:04:06
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mistymetika
Daughter of God :
Since I was about 3. If it wasn’t about my brother it wasn’t happening. And I wasn’t her child I was her competition.
2026-11-03 13:01:40
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dtangi64
DTangi64 :
Knew it for sure at 12. Still tried til I was 60.
2026-11-03 01:30:21
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graceandtruth835
Grace and Truth :
I was 37 years old, and 1 of my friends said, “You’re family doesn’t like you” I was stunned, because I had never thought of that! I always believed it was something wrong with me, and that is why they treated me like that! That’s hard to fathom for someone who didn’t grow up in a narcissistic family and scapegoated, but if you did then you get it! I cut ties with all of them! It took time for me to radically accept that! After, I began to heal, I went back to college and obtained my Associates, then my Bachelor’s, Master’s, and Doctorate degree. Then she started texting me and saying things like, “Good morning beautiful “ or saying “I love you” and I would literally get nauseous reading it because she never loved me, and the only reason she was saying it now is because she likes to brag about my accolades, and credentials! I just moved to Texas and finally cut her off for good this time! I am done! After all she did to me, the mistreatment by her, the abuse, humiliation, then grooming my siblings to disrespect me, her siblings, her boyfriends and husband! At 53 years old, I am grateful to God that I made it, and I deserve peace! I remember one night I woke up out of my sleep and she was standing over me with a butcher knife and said, “ I don’t know if I should kill you or kill your sister and brother and make you suffer for the rest of your life” I remember experiencing a fear that I have never felt since then that literally penetrated up my spine from being so afraid! When I told her that her husband molested me, she put me away and foster care and married him! I have worked hard to heal, and build a life that I love and I am going to enjoy it without her, and her family! I just wanted to share that! I pray every person who has ever experienced family scapegoating heal, thrive, and get a chance to live the life of their dreams! 🙏🏾❤️🥰
2026-11-03 03:31:22
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westernyankee
𖠰 Western Yankee 𖠰 :
When i was a kid, she told me, "You ruined my life by being born." She's always hated me.
2026-11-03 04:11:19
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mysiona
April :
16. When she started to compete with me for my boyfriend. In retrospect super weird.
2026-11-03 21:20:05
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