Grace and Truth :
I was 37 years old, and 1 of my friends said, “You’re family doesn’t like you” I was stunned, because I had never thought of that! I always believed it was something wrong with me, and that is why they treated me like that! That’s hard to fathom for someone who didn’t grow up in a narcissistic family and scapegoated, but if you did then you get it! I cut ties with all of them! It took time for me to radically accept that! After, I began to heal, I went back to college and obtained my Associates, then my Bachelor’s, Master’s, and Doctorate degree. Then she started texting me and saying things like, “Good morning beautiful “ or saying “I love you” and I would literally get nauseous reading it because she never loved me, and the only reason she was saying it now is because she likes to brag about my accolades, and credentials! I just moved to Texas and finally cut her off for good this time! I am done! After all she did to me, the mistreatment by her, the abuse, humiliation, then grooming my siblings to disrespect me, her siblings, her boyfriends and husband! At 53 years old, I am grateful to God that I made it, and I deserve peace! I remember one night I woke up out of my sleep and she was standing over me with a butcher knife and said, “ I don’t know if I should kill you or kill your sister and brother and make you suffer for the rest of your life” I remember experiencing a fear that I have never felt since then that literally penetrated up my spine from being so afraid! When I told her that her husband molested me, she put me away and foster care and married him! I have worked hard to heal, and build a life that I love and I am going to enjoy it without her, and her family! I just wanted to share that! I pray every person who has ever experienced family scapegoating heal, thrive, and get a chance to live the life of their dreams! 🙏🏾❤️🥰
2026-11-03 03:31:22