Here’s the uno reverse. YOU start becoming the avoidant now. That trauma messes with you. I fear I’m becoming one.
2026-11-03 05:07:00
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Karen with a Y :
Girl same. 5 years. And it’s like staring at a gun when I see “delivered but active”…
2026-11-03 05:01:34
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linseylewicki :
Coming from someone who left a 9 year relationship and fast forward 2 years later I am in a 9 month relationship now with the healthiest relationship that I once dreamed about. My only advice is to go to therapy and put in the work as a healthy relationship with trigger you in so many ways from your past one.
2026-11-03 10:46:45
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Amanda💥 :
Absolutely! My 15 year marriage really did a number on me, then got into a full blown situationship that I fell head over heels for. That ended very abruptly and did more damage than my marriage did. But I'm fine
2026-11-04 04:09:49
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ciaratenn :
Try 15 😢
2026-11-03 21:19:23
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Mel❤️ :
2 months out of a 6 year relationship. I get it, I am currently in therapy💜
2026-11-04 22:44:43
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Ciara💗 :
Can I so steal this? That’s everything I’ve been trying to say but couldn’t put into words
2026-11-03 03:52:32
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Jennifer :
Try 26 years
2026-11-03 22:37:17
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peacelovekristin :
6 for me too ..im so sorry 💔
2026-11-04 01:17:18
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♥️Cupcake🧁ASH🌹 :
Same here trust me.
2026-11-03 19:35:29
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Amanda Lynn ✨ :
Yeah…I had to start reacting to these thoughts like “so what? So what if he actually hates you? What’s that mean for you?” It doesn’t make you feel better immediately but you stop asking yourself if you’re unlovable every single day
2026-11-03 11:53:52
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CourtHendx :
I’m feeling this but after an eleven year marriage.
2026-11-03 03:24:02
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alishakayphotography :
Literally same! 🙃
2026-11-03 21:08:27
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Aliknowlz :
No one talks about this part of leaving a toxic relationship
2026-11-03 21:53:36
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Carter_alex :
Now I’m crying at 1013 pm
2026-11-03 03:13:14
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Meghan_Miller :
sadly connected our texts to Knows app and it clocked him as avoidant, not just busy
2026-11-03 11:54:09
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Jaimo :
Felt this in my soul
2026-11-03 15:10:58
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struckman90 :
Living it now
2026-11-04 01:03:18
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kayoyler96__ :
Same
2026-11-03 08:07:26
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shelbymimms545 :
This is real
2026-11-03 16:02:15
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Kristine Hodges :
Same. 7 years.
2026-11-03 22:22:03
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Aixa Boice :
I just left a 6 year relationship too girl🥺 we will be alright one day!!!
2026-11-03 21:24:40
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MadisonAriel :
12 and still married but feel like I’m losing my mind. I’d sit with you if I could 🫂
2026-11-03 21:43:17
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Karie(Phillips creation) :
Girl, I am right here with you. I just got left after a seven-year relationship, not even married, no kids, no living together, just got told that we needed a break
2026-11-03 03:26:10
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Roedel :
6 years too. I still don’t understand
2026-11-03 17:11:17
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