@nextlevelbydoctorc: Replying to @Belle Jolie 💕 Are you in a karmic loop with your spouse? Dr. C is a relationship coach who specializes in helping people navigate soul connections. #marriage #relationshipcoach #relationshipadvice #karmicrelationships #karmiclessons

#NotADelicateFlower🌸 :

I can’t believe it took another man showing just a little bit of interest to make my husband come to his senses. And now he’s suddenly doing everything I begged for 13 years. And I’m already checked out! 🥺

El Rant de Glory :

Touch starved relationship. I felt this.

Mountain Lady :

Im pretty much speechless watching you describe my life. 😳

Crochet Geek :

Touch starved for 15 years, it’s never going to change.

cutesyskank :

I don’t want him. I want the safety and stability that he symbolically represents. 😳🤯

mattberry :

what does it mean if they just threaten you with legal action and how much you will have to pay them towards the children!!

alexandragrinberg :

Me right now. For the past 3 years 💔

Jessie 🦄 :

I have been in it for the financial security for so long, and being afraid that my son will be mad at me and not understand. I have lost myself. I cannot make myself small enough to stay and finally choose me

delusional :

21 years. 21. Years. And now I’m supposed to believe he actually wants me…

Luxury_bag_connection :

It’s just manipulation. I’m leaving honey! I’m not changing my mind - period 🥰 time to go! 13yrs of walking the same road round and round! No more!

notmyrealname1980 :

6 years! I’ve been trying to get him to understand for 6 fucking years! I’m done reaching for a man that will not reach back!

zipper :

I wanted to save my divorce, but I'm glad it's over now.Because after the divorce , I found out about her cheating , and there's no coming back from that

Nicole C :

Third loop around is a charm! Divorce filed on Oct 16th. 🙌🏻

Leanne Marie 🎀🩷 :

Yeah I hate that it looks like I’m the one who messed up bc I was publicly leaving for the affair partner when the rupture happened for the entire 12 years when I was more like a single married mom begging for his consideration and contribution to the home/raising the children but “he went to work!” 😂 SO DO I WHAT DO YOU MEAN??? Anyways, turns out everyone knowing catapulted my spiritual awakening and unbecoming the perfect “good girl” image everyone always projected onto me. I wanted the divorce but eventually i stayed bc.. I’m being selfish. I don’t want to “figure it out” on the other side in this economy and I don’t. Want my kids to have to not do things they want to do. It’s more like a domestic partnership more than an actual romantic marriage. I called my energy back from everyone and cut energetic cords.i give my energy to me and so does he. He does his own laundry and I don’t consider him like I use to. I consider me and the kids. He meal plans and grocery shops and cooks most dinners. He helps and is involved in the kids care and sports now. It’s more equal than ever - and yes I held resentment that it took me stepping. Out of my moral character for him to “change” …. I will never be able to gain the respect for him I lost back and I will never fully love like I did before. I think I’ve broken the karmic loop in a way but, won’t be fully free until I’m on my own, I’m sure! But the rose colored glasses I wore for others are shattered. I also had quite the glow up afterward too. Wild, honestly.

AthenaSushiDejaGouda :

How did this show up on my FYP?! [Innocent] I feel like my iPhone has been listening to me and sent it.

wdnosraj :

What is a karmic cycle?

Young Gravy :

Damn, I suck man. I feel like you’re pointing me out.

EAGLE THE CREATOR :

Pickles🇺🇸❌️ :

yeah nope. I told him I wanted the divorce and part of working on it was intimacy because it had been five years. I gave him a year and a half and he never touched me once

Lady Eloise :

Thank you for the words to describe what I’ve been struggling to explain

CSquared :

How do you know if it’s just performative? I’m struggling so hard with deciding to leave or stay. 20 years, 3 kids, but deep down I feel like he doesn’t like me and resents me. No matter how much he says that isn’t true.

Eva Magic :

I finally left my 11 year relationship after so many conversations had in the last 5 years and no change. Now I'm with the person that helped me wake up.

carolinagrl❌️79 :

I walked away 3yrs ago for a yr he begged 2yrs in i said I can't keep doing this. and I was done and now this is where we are.and this is what scares me. it keeps repeating it won't change will it though he swears he sees now and he doesn't want to lose my and he loves me

Carla Denise, MSW., M.Ed♈️💙💛 :

Absolutely!!!💯💯