Carly | single mum
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Tuesday 03 November 2026 13:03:09 GMT
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leighraymitch :
I’ve walked away with nothing after 17 years, not married either so am entitled to nothing, even though I put my heart and love into our family and family home 🫤
2026-11-14 20:18:07
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Apple :
I used to end every day mentally replaying every conversation. AnwenReid anxiety quiz gave me a reason to reflect on that pattern, and I've started building a much gentler evening routine.
2026-11-07 03:30:53
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Gazz1183 :
Cut your cloth accordingly then. Downsize, cut things out you don’t need. This is life.
2026-11-03 15:33:07
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Dotsy1978 :
Sell ur house 🤷♂️
2026-11-03 19:47:22
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David Hobart :
I don’t think even couples can manage
2026-11-03 20:52:28
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MikeyC :
Sell the car.
2026-11-04 06:48:53
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Holssss :
I call it surviving and not thriving. But I will thrive… just need a bit of time
2026-11-03 14:59:22
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tjharbinson :
i feel this so much! I read a tiktok recently that said my child's dad forced me to parent in survival mode. truth! 100%
2026-11-03 14:02:59
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. :
i earn 60 k a year. husband had a breakdown 2 years ago so couldn't work. our finances are a mess and we are struggling massively. bedroom TV doesn't work, I was without a vacuum for months so used a brush, my kettle is broken.
2026-11-03 14:27:28
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Leanne :
Hustle your ass off. You will get there! It is hard but you don’t get sent more than you can handle.
2026-11-03 18:30:02
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Abi xx :
Every single word you said resonates with me. Utterly exhausted from it 😢
2026-11-04 18:25:14
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Steve :
Wait till you are 10 years older , and still in the exact same loop , no better off , we are sold a dream,, it’s fake
2026-11-03 23:28:38
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Jennifer Jones :
It should be a criminal offence.
2026-11-03 21:09:02
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lyndalynda :
I'm 46 currently being tested for ms, work 12 HR shifts, failing health wise, it's just me and my daughter, I always worry what happens if I cant do this anymore and keep everything going.
2026-11-04 16:37:45
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angiejhib :
I’ve spent the last 9 years since my husband left just trying to get from month to month the last 9 years have flown by , I’ve got three of my kids at home still 2 are at uni and one just finished an apprenticeship, but I’m classed as a single person with no dependents but I still have to buy food for a family of four , like my ex husband hasn’t had to find £900 a month to put a roof over there heads and food on the table , I’m tired of it now I just don’t know how to make it fit I’m about £700 short of what I need every month
2026-11-05 01:50:40
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Sonns world 🐝 :
Ex left me with thousands of debt for our beautiful wedding, I paid all of this off, and now he pays nothing towards our two amazing girls …. All on me and it’s scary, exhausting and so unfair!! Stay strong xx
2026-11-04 22:06:29
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Hannah/Employment Lawyer/Mum :
Yep. Got a very good job no maintenance and it's still hard to make it work with two teens. Not sure how others manage like that on less money.
2026-11-03 23:48:29
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💙 ⚡️Webbo ❤️ ❤️⚡️ :
So so true
2026-11-03 14:43:20
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Shaunalawlorhair :
You’re doing great and your kids are so lucky to have such a strong mam. Keep going girl 🫶
2026-11-03 17:34:14
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RedHotChilliStepper :
Whereas im the man who works 40 plus hours and my ex wife works an hour a week, gets thousands in maintenance and child support and out for lunch and coffee daily!
2026-11-03 13:49:59
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Christina :
I feel you, I keep asking myself how can they keep paying increasing bills, when our wages do not increase. I work full-time, my wage is nowhere enough to support myself, and my children. Making cut backs where I can, don't drink, don't smoke, hardly go out. If I cut anything else, Myself and my kids will be existing not living xx
2026-11-03 19:10:33
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A wig and a prayer :
Sell up get a smaller house.
2026-11-03 22:47:51
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Daniel :
yep know this feeling oh too well. got paid 20th and it's gone already 😂🙈🙈🙈
2026-11-03 18:06:08
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etovey :
This is me, 3 months in and i can't see it getting any better. Meanwhile he gets to just walk away from debts he has left due to gambling and not contribute to his kids.
2026-11-03 14:17:06
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