@safespacewithkay: Maturing is realizing trying to give someone a “love they never had before” often backfires. Observe their capacity and understanding of what love is and move accordingly 

The_uncanny_catalyst :

but I don't wanna treat them like shit and be all toxic

Kute with Ke Kollection’s :

This is sooo true. Don’t even waste your time, use your discernment and move accordingly

Michelle B. Creations :

Just leave them where they’re at.

Pink Butterfly 🩷 :

I love your takes Kay. Hear me out tho, this is how God reveals Himself thru you. Although the end result for you may be hurt, God will repay and repair you. Don't meet people where they are, rooted in hurt, pain, and despair. People can only love at their capacity. The truth is we all get take for granted at some point. Discernment is key, but dont stop being you. This is what sets us apart. 🤗

September :

I've NEVER thought about it like that. makes sense...... leave ... got it

adaivie :

I can’t. I just cut them off or remain distant

Naga…No Filter🐉 :

Yeah my spouse doesn’t respect kindness. I had to blackout on his ass and go super SAYIAN for him to appreciate me and that’s the polar opposite of my personality, character and love language

Serena :

true im mean n they suddenly adore me

Moreaboutbeauty :

Wow thank you for this perspective!!

💓 :

yesss! some people need to get the bare minimum

Meh 🫤 :

This when I learnt to just love ppl from a distance when I realize they don’t have the capacity

Demi 🥰 :

Your hair is so fyeee

charli Ray :

thank you for the advice

tbtessentials :

Exactly right, they will get mad at you and blame you for their issues. If we love them our way with them wanting the love, it is actually US being selfish and overbearing.

Marius Marais473 :

whole true there is also I can't do that now meaning the person has things they need to do and it Naturally has conflict with what is on the table also like wanting someone to heal while they are under attack but you don't see it so you force healing on the person expecting them to put down what protects them while being hurt

Juston Lamar Johnson :

So true. 💯💯

Lay love 🫶🏽🤍 :

shaniya.theegreat :

!!!

Stella :

👏👏

Lauren’s Lewkbook 🪡 :

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