@caligirl4life67: Here we are waiting for her to succumb to the dementia. These last few days are gonna be the absolute hardest. And this is my closure. It’s not the closure that I ever wanted or that I thought I would get, but it is my closure. I used to always think what did I do so bad to cause my mother to side with my ex? And come to find out it wasn’t my mom. For 37 years she was in a very controlling relationship/marriage to a woman who used her wealth and society standing to manipulate and control my mother. Domestic violence comes in all forms. It’s not always just about physically beating someone. And that’s part of my closure too. I had to step out of my emotions in order to see that my mom really didn’t have a choice. I guess returning to both of my parents as they die has helped me heal a lot of unanswered questions. And to be able to prove to myself that I was not ever all of those things that were said about me. That is my closure! ##fypシ##caregiversoftiktok##parentswithdementia##dementiaawareness##HealingJourney
My beautiful sis- you are not alone. You may not have a daughter, but you have many, including I. I have a daughter, but as if I don’t and with 2 grandkids. Blood is not family, who we choose it. This is a closure for the past with answers. A new journey and adventures begins. I’ve been healing for one year and never imagined the peace within. How do you think I create my music 🤩. Im here if you need to vent. I innerstand you - stay strong sis! This is to make you stronger within.. sending you hug, comfort and strength for such times 🥰🙏
2026-11-04 06:03:14
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Zoey :
She’s so lucky to have you at the end. Life and death are just plain hard. I’m the same. I will be alone as well.
2026-11-03 23:49:25
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ocean_eyes1970 :
So sorry
2026-11-03 20:46:50
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MichelleLHood :
ahhh I'm so sorry.
2026-11-03 14:31:51
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🌈🫶JEN🫶🌈 :
prayers for you and your Mama. Hugs for you both
2026-11-03 18:15:49
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TLTravisAuthor :
I’m so sorry. I can’t even imagine how hard this is on you. Sending all the hugs.
2026-11-03 16:11:30
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Steph|SAHM| 🧠🫶🏻🦋🥒🐥🫧 :
It may not have been the exact closure you were looking for but I hope you find some sort of peace. You are an incredible soul and taking care of someone in this situation is the toughest part. Speak your truth always whether people like it or not. In her most vulnerable moments she knew she could count on you.
2026-11-04 11:47:54
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Blue horizon :
Prayers.
2026-11-03 23:06:58
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JUDY Lewis 🩷💖🩷💖🩷💖 :
oh honey I'm so very sorry... hugs love & prayers
2026-11-03 22:23:16
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♊️Tatted.Brat♊️ :
Sending love and hugs your way and praying for a peaceful transition for your mom. 💕
2026-11-04 00:12:43
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✨🌕𝔹𝔼𝕋ℍ𝔸ℕℕ𝕀𝔼🌑✨ :
I'm so sorry love
it's one of the hardest things to witness and be a part of. Take care of you and we are here if you need anything. Love you
2026-11-03 14:47:19
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Ashley :
🙏🏼🫂, I’m so sorry my friend. Sending you all the love!
2026-11-03 16:05:05
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Jane42 :
your posts are important to many people. time to take care of you
2026-11-03 14:40:46
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Sheryl Lynne Burnsed 🏳️🌈☮️ :
🙏
2026-11-03 20:15:58
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Leena🇨🇦 :
I’m so sorry my friend💔. Sending you hugs, strength and love ❤️
2026-11-03 17:13:38
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Jen Kuntz🏳️🌈 :
Giving you the biggest hug my friend 🥰
2026-11-03 14:25:27
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AprilD.13🧶❌️👵🏽 :
Prayer and hugs.
2026-11-03 15:05:26
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Nana B 🌈💙✌🏼Gen❌ :
Prayers!!
2026-11-03 21:46:17
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🌈BUTTONS🌈 :
so sorry 😔
2026-11-03 14:55:30
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Norhatch724 :
Praying for you, God is in charge.
2026-11-03 19:20:04
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Stella O 💙❌ :
Play her music on repeat. It helps to keep her grounded and calm. Much love to you both.
2026-11-03 17:37:35
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Tracey :
I'm praying for your mom & you. Many hugs to you 🫂🩷