DoctorRamani
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Tuesday 03 November 2026 16:40:42 GMT
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Jess ❤️ :
I’m literally 10 years behind as an adult. It’s infuriating. I’m 36 but doing what a 26 is usually doing. I feel like I’ve lost so much
2026-11-03 20:17:45
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Sarah :
CPTSD caused me to never develop a healthy sense of self.
2026-11-03 18:40:31
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🐈⬛ Rebecca ❤️ :
Trying to get the difficult person to be good and treat us well … my dad was a mean person
2026-11-03 20:29:26
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dogmomrnco :
Damn, me trying to get my Dad to accept me as I am, trying to get him to see that I am good enough to be loved by him, me continuing to walk on eggshells so he will love me
2026-11-04 14:29:22
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quietorbit79 :
Just go search The Audacity to Upgrade by Stella Vane (thank me later)
2026-11-04 01:41:54
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James :
And sometimes, that difficult person is OURSELVES! Self sabotage, addiction, self harm, negative self talk, poor self esteem, lack of identity, worthlessness etc..
2026-11-04 10:53:14
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southernmama ❌ :
My mom was my first and worst bully
2026-11-04 14:17:14
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Jpmc4ever :
I wish I knew this at 20
2026-11-03 19:42:33
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PG :
Trauma Trying to get a difficult person to love us.
2026-11-03 16:43:25
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Chris_Trauma_Therapist :
Yes!!! Appeasing, fawning, avoiding, the anxious overthinking, and sometimes we join the perpetual helper professions.
2026-11-03 22:13:59
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cjers :
Childhood trauma is standing around waiting for that 15 mins they will be nice to us.
2026-11-04 00:43:13
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TheLastRealBich :
It’s TIME Dr Teahan is EVERYWHERE. He’s next level.
2026-11-04 14:26:06
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bumblebee tuna 🐝🐟 :
I did that for soooooo many years. Trying to get abusive dismissive people to love and care about me. I finally stopped doing that in my late 30s early 40s. Childhood trauma is tough to overcome and move past.
2026-11-04 14:28:05
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Ryan Elle💋 :
ive ended up in so many abusive relationships and friendships because of this phenomenon.
2026-11-03 21:01:02
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Boricoqui🇵🇷 :
it took me 56 years and now I'm at peace
2026-11-03 19:30:10
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DogPawStudio 🏳️🌈 :
If one parent is good to you but the other isn’t-how does that effect the child? Asking as a mother of three girls…
2026-11-04 14:40:20
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RobinG :
This comment woke me up so much - whew!!
2026-11-03 21:47:24
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Newlife :
I have CPTSD- I wanted my NPD mother just to love me- it never came.
2026-11-04 01:38:59
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Louuuiiissseeeee :
ok but tell me how to not care about it anymore 😭
2026-11-03 22:45:22
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elzbtx :
What if we were taught the difficult person was God…
2026-11-03 22:55:28
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Benita | That Black Girl In UT :
You GOTS to cuss those people out. I’m telling you it’s so healing 😂😂😂
2026-11-03 18:58:41
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Kenzo :
all i do on this app is cry
2026-11-03 20:25:09
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Stephanie Marsan :
And it could be a sibling
2026-11-03 21:16:12
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Lady Boss Secrets :
Individuation is key to healing
2026-11-03 22:27:05
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L :
Growing up in an abusive home has two potential outcomes. You can end up angry or with victim mentality. I was an angry person for a long time. I was in my early 30s when I started realizing that maybe I was the problem not everyone else since I always justified being angry and aggressive as a result of how I was raised by an abusive mother. Eventually I realized I can’t change the past and I grew and moved on. But most people love to stay in the victim role. I can say I’m no longer traumatized by my upbringing. Because it doesn’t affect my daily life anymore. But it took work and many years to get there.
2026-11-03 19:37:29
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