@growwithkaela: Dismissive avoidants’ eyes will lure you in at the start, and once they’ve deactivated their eyes will often dilate and turn black with nothing behind them. Have you experienced this? 👀

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ryanw4130
Ryan W :
How much conflict are you bringing to them? 😳
2026-11-04 00:46:07
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madison_easter
Madison Easter :
I would always call them her “shark eyes.” Just a black void predicating something purely evil.
2026-11-03 21:39:47
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mbclaudio99
mbclaudio99 :
indeed
2026-11-08 18:49:13
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misty._.s
MysticalMisty❣️❌❣️ :
I was waiting to hear about their eyes because they glaze over and appear soulless. It is a completely different look. They look dead
2026-11-04 22:02:50
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itsamy_gdala
itsamy_gdala :
The eyes are windows to the soul, yet look at any smiling picture of them and cover the lower half of the face. The eyes are *never* smiling. It’s chilling.
2026-11-03 20:39:09
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karaekay
kara :
freaked me tf out. i was crying and looked up and his stare was dead. it terrified me.
2026-11-03 23:13:14
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triple6militia1
Triple6Militia :
When I know somebody’s lying to me, I purposely stared directly into their eyes. It’s funny they will do everything in their power to avoid eye contact.
2026-11-03 23:08:40
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namasterenee77
NamasteRenee77 :
My DA husbands eyes comma his pupils will completely blow. His pupils completely dilate and stay dilated until he regulates his nervous system. He literally leaves his body and disassociates.
2026-11-03 23:59:39
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youknowthis8
Mandrelle :
I have experienced this recently. It freaked me out.
2026-11-03 23:10:53
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desert_r.o.s.e
DesertRose :
My husband just closes his or covers them like a child…
2026-11-06 00:21:52
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chicaedhenana
BukuriaNanes :
they have a soul😳
2026-11-03 19:25:55
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jacenk
Jason Kraynek :
yep. pathetically tried to talk with her for years while she would just stare at her phone or blank stare at me and say nothing. Usually ended in me just giving up because I felt like I was talking to a wall.
2026-11-03 22:30:16
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keithtouchsaunders
Touch :
Oh, she fully gives eye contact … when she wants something
2026-11-03 22:02:06
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cinderella.rockafe
Cinderella Rockafella :
they look dead inside
2026-11-04 19:02:03
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stinaa29
Christina :
Scary
2026-11-04 15:25:38
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italianpizzasecrets
ItalianPizzaSecrets 🍕 :
it happened to my DA. I lived the situation of her eyes going void. She was not there anymore. Eyes were empty. It has been one of the most heart touching experiences I had in life. I felt very bad for her. Because it was clear that something was completely off. I told her what I noticed and got answered I was the first person noticing it. Two days after she dropped me.
2026-11-04 10:11:19
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golie_timber_services
golie_timber_services :
Spot on
2026-11-04 12:12:02
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natasha_smith24
Natasha Smith :
I heard this is a thing .. Why ? 😳 That’s scary
2026-11-03 20:06:00
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philipmurphy111
Promurf :
Truth
2026-11-04 18:34:35
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anderkar22
Kari :
How does it show up in marriage
2026-11-03 21:29:28
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sarahmotorbikespares
SarahBikeSpares|| 0720•965•060 :
it's true
2026-11-05 07:57:23
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aldona23467
Latte 🤫❤️ :
I experienced that 🤦‍♀️🥺
2026-11-06 12:29:57
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piperrose1123
🧿 Piper 🇺🇸🧿 :
The last time I saw him he put sunglasses on and gave me a side hug. 🙄
2026-11-03 21:17:27
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sandybaby1979
Sandra Tarin :
I noticed this when I broke up with him … he was looking right through me . Weird
2026-11-03 20:22:20
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seggzmf
SeggZyMF :
the DAs deactivated eyes are far too similar to a Narcissistic stare. i know. DAs aren't Narcs. but the wreckage and outcomes are the same.... so.....different motivation is not acquittal. they are unintentional monsters but still selfish
2026-11-03 23:17:47
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