CoachLocke
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marcel85198 :
Our education system is not made for young boys.
2026-11-03 22:38:51
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Drew Page :
Let the boys be boys.
2026-11-03 21:31:58
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user2312891677196 :
Just watched your kindergarteners. If you’re playing a game that involves some type of ball and a girl has the ball, a boy, even at that young age, will just walk up and take the ball from her. And often the girls let them because even at five and six, they’ve learned.
2026-11-03 21:25:09
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Phyn :
The reason we cant reach them in the classroom is because they dont care. Why should they? Curent masculinity doesnt value intelligence, dilligence, cooperation, compassion or awareness of others, i see it everyday in the way their behavior is reinforced by adults neglecting to correct their behavior. All things necessary to succeed in a classroom. Masculinity values aggression, dominance, competiveness and loyalty which is reinforced by the boys themselves through social acceptance. I could see the contrast in social programming so clearly as a trans boy. I tried to show others that i was a boy by acting like a boy (ie like myself) but was constantly corrected by adults, called disruptive, mischevious, disrespectful, un-lady-like, and so on. Only when i "acted like a lady" was i given positive praise and attention. But I watched the other boys, watched how i could do the same exact thing as them, right alongside them, and be the only one chastised. The boys dont need special attention, they need to be treated like girls, need to be told they arent acting gentlemanly when shouting in the classroom, or not respecting their peers space, or being unclean and slovenly in the bathroom. They act accordingly when we give them the accord. I have had genuine concersations with boys about how their actions affect others, how they have a responsibility to look out for other people, that as a boy you may move through the world one way but the girls around you have to move through it completely differently. Most of those conversations really opened their eyes and i noticed a shift in the way they acted the hallway, the way they asked others to be respectful towards their peers or environment and most importantly the pride they developed in themselves for being a leader because what one boy does so do 3 others.
2026-11-04 03:16:26
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Ally :
As a former teacher, I think we have a problem with holding our boys accountable. Particularly our white boys.
2026-11-04 14:56:38
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Chase_Woods :
Almost like society had turned against boys and men. Starts in school and continues on
2026-11-04 02:41:50
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Jayne :
we stopped raising boys to be men
2026-11-04 10:00:46
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huug :
I taught my son how to read before kindergarten and he’s the few only kids who reads full books in class and his grades aren’t reflecting because he doesn’t sit still enough in class.
2026-11-04 01:45:06
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mini_me50 :
Yes, show these boys respect and show respect to men so they know they can trust you.
2026-11-03 20:35:14
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Kathryn Elizabeth :
As a teacher at an all boys high school. Yes.
2026-11-03 22:59:47
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imdbellla :
Hate to admit it but a lot of it is neglect due to the assumption that they’ll automatically be superior at things compared to their sisters and then they get left behind it makes no sense but I’ve seen it happen in real time
2026-11-04 18:40:31
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randylangworthy3 :
No,it has a problem with social media.
2026-11-03 22:37:10
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¥ Kan $ :
Real strength is not “respect”. How does one respect others when they can’t respect themselves or maybenot have a household/environment that respects them?
2026-11-04 17:09:42
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maxxiecat :
It’s not just this country…
2026-11-03 23:52:14
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Lola ✨️ :
I say this as a 20 smthing that has to date them 🙄
2026-11-04 03:48:01
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krimess :
I mean sure but another issue you people have is the fact that you don't promote your boys you promote your idea of what a boy and/or male and/or man is, effectively your motivations are tainting your actions because for a lot of y'all it's not about helping the boys it's about helping the girls by changing the boys and boys already see that was just the reason why your efforts aren't really getting as good results as you would like
2026-11-04 15:16:10
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Cam (#1 ZENSHU promoter) :
Two questions I’d love to hear from the comments on. 1, if you’re claiming that the modern school system heavily favors girls, what changes would need to be made to make it more egalitarian? And 2, when you say that boys need to be respected for us to get anywhere, do you mean actual respect as a human person, or respect as an authority? Because I personally have seen a lot of conflation between the two in these types of arguments.
2026-11-04 14:10:23
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progress and pencils AI :
This is so accurate!
2026-11-04 01:49:34
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📚⚒️🌱 :
it's not just this country
2026-11-04 14:09:00
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ac6676 :
Yeaaaaa no
2026-11-04 05:45:57
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Your mom :
Oh brother
2026-11-03 22:39:21
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rammm848 :
As a girl Mom, and someone who was severely bullied by boys growing up and now works in an all male industry and is bullied by my male coworkers and bosses, I have raised my daughter to completely ignore boys and act as if they don’t exist. I’ve raised her to completely decenter them and literally do whatever she wants and pay them no mind. She’s not friends with any little boys at all. We only have play dates with girls and only invite girls to our home and birthday parties and she is a very happy kid and has a large group of friends. Most little boys these days are mean and very entitled. I’m teaching her early that we don’t care about these men and there’s no reason for us to put them on a pedestal because they dang sure don’t put us on a pedestal. my mom was incredibly male centered and I watched it literally ruin her life and I refuse to be the same and allow my daughter to be the same. Men and boys are dangerous.
2026-11-04 01:00:13
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cox.alex4 :
What? Even going as far as college this is just patently untrue. Success in one area is “almost” always a predictor of success in others. Outside of true outliers like those naturally gifted enough to not need discipline or passion
2026-11-04 06:04:49
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joe blake :
As the mother of kind and respectful boys who are thriving at school, it comes down to actually raising them. Too many parents have the “boys will be boys” mentality and they just let them do whatever. It’s insane
2026-11-04 13:02:37
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Channy5 :
I have found I have the most issues with boys who aren’t connected to anything (no group, no tribe). The students who feel the most invisible (boys & girls) are students who have no group/ no tribe.
2026-11-04 02:10:21
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