@girlthepoet: #creatorsearchinsights #attachmentavoidant Are you the avoidant’s phantom ex? 👻 The phantom ex phenomenon happens when someone with an avoidant attachment style emotionally idealizes a past relationship, struggles to forget an ex, or compares new partners to someone they lost. For a dismissive avoidant or fearful avoidant, an ex can feel safer to love from a distance than a partner who requires emotional intimacy. If your avoidant ex keeps coming back, can’t seem to let you go, or struggles to move on after the breakup, you may be their phantom ex. #AvoidantAttachment #PhantomEx #DismissiveAvoidant
A person can only take so much. The push and pull. One day we’re exclusive, the next they say they don’t like labels. You feel close one day, the next you’re confused. You start questioning yourself. I finally walked away. My feelings didn’t change, their disrespect in the end was the final push I needed.
2026-11-03 23:57:32
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adysen :
Well- I Alr fucked up on that but this last time I just left him on read and moved on with my life !
2026-11-03 23:31:29
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Dark👑+•+¢🗡️ :
I'm in no contact for 5 months. I'm not interested in his games. No, thanks.
2026-11-04 14:27:47
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ꜱʏʀᴇx :
what if u did that already? 😅😭 i finally decided to go to no contact for 3 years now
2026-11-04 01:10:54
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Amy Wilkins :
Packed up and left with two horses and two cats. Blocked and deleted him and everyone associated. No access to me whatsoever. I completely disappeared, life is so good on the other side!
2026-11-04 01:53:08
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leelaur7 :
You’re so sweet to say “if you need to cry to me.” 🥺
2026-11-03 22:12:12
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user5228423662944 :
Yea I’m over itttttttttttttttt
2026-11-04 02:42:55
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Tink❣️💋 :
I’m assuming this disqualifies anyone who parents with said avoidant … you have to talk in order to parent lol u fortunately
2026-11-04 03:07:51
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