@her_mind_speaks: Your wound can convince you that this person is amazing….i promise you if they actually chose you and you had that relationship you would hate it…you’d be so lonely 🥹 #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment
No fr, why would I want to be the woman he lies to and cheats on the most? Like being crowned the queen of idiot island.
2026-11-04 01:20:42
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R :
the thing is i already know i can’t stand him, i can’t let him go though
2026-11-03 22:21:31
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Kingfisher :
I remember a night out, we were chatting and there was a moment I felt unfulfilled with interaction and I said to myself: What are you doing here?😞 I wanted to be some place else.
2026-11-03 20:57:22
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Cinyourfav_ :
I’ve gone no contact but I can’t stop thinking about them
2026-11-04 01:43:50
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Samantha💖 :
I found I was drawn to people like this because I never got the validation of my parents
2026-11-03 20:53:40
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Kiara Ariell :
16 months on and off. It’s really toxic, they never change. Walk away the first time.
2026-11-03 23:19:09
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Natalie :
This blows my mind, you are completely COMPLETELY spot on. I feel less crazy, thank you so much ❤️
2026-11-03 21:50:19
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Aniqah 🤍 :
I appreciate this a lot thank you
2026-11-03 22:50:18
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Lily :
This happened with me and he did choose me. Turns out we were completely wrong for each other and I ended it! I learnt a lot from this relationship though
2026-11-03 23:03:35
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Stephanie :
Yep, let the grieving process begin!
2026-11-04 02:06:55
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lmwrig72 :
You should literally have your own mainstream TV show to pass on this wisdom and help millions of people 🙏🏻 🙌🏻🫶🏻
2026-11-03 21:17:34
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Meowxx :
Spot on every word!!
2026-11-03 22:07:13
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kaelyn brielle :
:( i need help letting go its so hard it’s like mourning someone who’s alive who i thought they were it hurts my heart
2026-11-04 04:09:32
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Divine Feminine :
Thanks for reminding me. I seen it before. But his charm made me forget. Thanks for clarity.
2026-11-04 04:23:20
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Serotoninbabe🏳️🌈🍉 :
this has made me emotional, seems like well thought advice. I'm not sure I'm ready to get over them completely yet.. it's a work in progress
2026-11-04 04:44:50
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Nana_techie😊👩💻 :
Jen would you advise to take a break from social media I have been doing your content and it’s but i can’t think of a steady person eish💔I love your content so much but I keep on going to old wounds and feel defeated even I conquered the fear last time
2026-11-03 20:56:37
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ohcleoyes :
Thank you so much! This is soooo true Jen!
2026-11-03 22:53:39
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its_lexymaee :
You right
2026-11-04 01:05:51
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mimi :
Really needed to hear this today. Thank you 😞
2026-11-03 21:49:58
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Gem 💎 :
I never treated him like a prize I needed to win. But all the rest of this is spot on. We had an amazing bond and clicked so naturally but everything you say is so true. Controversial take but I actually think the best thing to do is keep going back until they say or do something that shows their true intention. When you get to see who they really are. That’s what breaks the bond completely. When you know there’s nothing to go back for. The sight of their name will give you the ick. 🙏 Love and light to you all. ❤️
2026-11-03 21:42:36
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Nip :
Absolute facts
2026-11-03 22:20:14
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Teresa Taylor- Melody queen 🎶 :
It’s also sometimes just wanting to settle in with someone instead of starting over and over and over
2026-11-04 01:15:06
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melo_marz :
Realised that parents are the root and my romantic partners are the trees…dealt with my father wound, just struggling with the mother wound now. Thank you for making these videos♥️
2026-11-03 23:52:29
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V :
needed this today [Crying]
2026-11-03 22:59:47
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Nana_techie😊👩💻 :
I am grateful of your help
2026-11-03 20:57:13
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