@her_mind_speaks: Your wound can convince you that this person is amazing….i promise you if they actually chose you and you had that relationship you would hate it…you’d be so lonely 🥹 #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment

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mrsfunnie
Petty Mayonnaise :
No fr, why would I want to be the woman he lies to and cheats on the most? Like being crowned the queen of idiot island.
2026-11-04 01:20:42
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rhodaakua
R :
the thing is i already know i can’t stand him, i can’t let him go though
2026-11-03 22:21:31
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carvodomar
Kingfisher :
I remember a night out, we were chatting and there was a moment I felt unfulfilled with interaction and I said to myself: What are you doing here?😞 I wanted to be some place else.
2026-11-03 20:57:22
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cinyourfav__
Cinyourfav_ :
I’ve gone no contact but I can’t stop thinking about them
2026-11-04 01:43:50
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samanthawoods756
Samantha💖 :
I found I was drawn to people like this because I never got the validation of my parents
2026-11-03 20:53:40
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iamkiaraariell
Kiara Ariell :
16 months on and off. It’s really toxic, they never change. Walk away the first time.
2026-11-03 23:19:09
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thesingingone
Natalie :
This blows my mind, you are completely COMPLETELY spot on. I feel less crazy, thank you so much ❤️
2026-11-03 21:50:19
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aniqahnx
Aniqah 🤍 :
I appreciate this a lot thank you
2026-11-03 22:50:18
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lilyexton00
Lily :
This happened with me and he did choose me. Turns out we were completely wrong for each other and I ended it! I learnt a lot from this relationship though
2026-11-03 23:03:35
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st3phanie17
Stephanie :
Yep, let the grieving process begin!
2026-11-04 02:06:55
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lmwrig72
lmwrig72 :
You should literally have your own mainstream TV show to pass on this wisdom and help millions of people 🙏🏻 🙌🏻🫶🏻
2026-11-03 21:17:34
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meowxx950
Meowxx :
Spot on every word!!
2026-11-03 22:07:13
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the.real..her
kaelyn brielle :
:( i need help letting go its so hard it’s like mourning someone who’s alive who i thought they were it hurts my heart
2026-11-04 04:09:32
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coolchic58
Divine Feminine :
Thanks for reminding me. I seen it before. But his charm made me forget. Thanks for clarity.
2026-11-04 04:23:20
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serotoninbabe
Serotoninbabe🏳️‍🌈🍉 :
this has made me emotional, seems like well thought advice. I'm not sure I'm ready to get over them completely yet.. it's a work in progress
2026-11-04 04:44:50
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tebatso_ma
Nana_techie😊👩‍💻 :
Jen would you advise to take a break from social media I have been doing your content and it’s but i can’t think of a steady person eish💔I love your content so much but I keep on going to old wounds and feel defeated even I conquered the fear last time
2026-11-03 20:56:37
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cleobased
ohcleoyes :
Thank you so much! This is soooo true Jen!
2026-11-03 22:53:39
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its_lexymaee
its_lexymaee :
You right
2026-11-04 01:05:51
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melissasofiafanta4
mimi :
Really needed to hear this today. Thank you 😞
2026-11-03 21:49:58
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irishstyle89
Gem 💎 :
I never treated him like a prize I needed to win. But all the rest of this is spot on. We had an amazing bond and clicked so naturally but everything you say is so true. Controversial take but I actually think the best thing to do is keep going back until they say or do something that shows their true intention. When you get to see who they really are. That’s what breaks the bond completely. When you know there’s nothing to go back for. The sight of their name will give you the ick. 🙏 Love and light to you all. ❤️
2026-11-03 21:42:36
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dipity6
Nip :
Absolute facts
2026-11-03 22:20:14
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teresataylormusic
Teresa Taylor- Melody queen 🎶 :
It’s also sometimes just wanting to settle in with someone instead of starting over and over and over
2026-11-04 01:15:06
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melo_marz
melo_marz :
Realised that parents are the root and my romantic partners are the trees…dealt with my father wound, just struggling with the mother wound now. Thank you for making these videos♥️
2026-11-03 23:52:29
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_vixypixy_
V :
needed this today [Crying]
2026-11-03 22:59:47
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tebatso_ma
Nana_techie😊👩‍💻 :
I am grateful of your help
2026-11-03 20:57:13
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