@bennylichtenwalner: If your partner of 10 or 20 years suddenly makes you the bad guy after you stayed loyal, it doesn't mean you're a bad person. When someone gets less out of the relationship than they give, especially with somebody new in the picture, their selective focus flips to everything negative you ever did. If you change, that focus might flip again, and you can learn to use it to your advantage. Married or together for years and it's falling apart? DM me ROOTS and I'll message you back.

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Tuesday 03 November 2026 20:37:59 GMT