@kayleethefb: My boyfriend and I had an argument, and I want an outside perspective. We were at a school studio I’d booked, and his friend was coming to hang out while I worked on music. His friend arrived about 1–2 hours late. They started talking about someone proposing to their girlfriend in a studio. It brought up insecurities because I wish I could afford a ring and do those kinds of romantic things for my boyfriend. I told him how I felt and started putting myself down. He mostly sat quietly, then went to another room with his friend. I wanted comfort, and I felt abandoned. Around 1:30 a.m., I was exhausted and upset, so I messaged asking him to help me get a ride home. He showed his friend my messages, and his friend told him to stand up for himself. When I went into the room, they were laughing. They said it was because the situation was awkward, but I felt mocked. I was shaking with anger, though I tried to explain why I was hurt. I explicitly said I wanted to be held when upset. He held me after we got home after 3 a.m. and tried again the next morning, but I was still hurt. We talked, and I cried. Later, he stayed after class without telling me. Communication about plans has been a recurring frustration, and I sent an angry text saying I was tired of it and calling him selfish. I feel like I had to spell out the comfort I needed. Was I expecting too much, and what should each of us have handled differently?

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Tuesday 03 November 2026 22:16:22 GMT