Same types of questions for someone that is divorced. Yes, if your partner died you were left with love, but healing over loss is the same IMHO
2026-11-05 04:47:08
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Lawyergirl :
I married a widower and it was hell. I divorced him 3 years later.
2026-11-04 19:17:28
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Peggy :
No as a widow it is NOT the same as divorced or whatever-if your going to date someone who is widowed YOU need to understand we will ALWAYS love our dead spouse but just in the same sense that if you have more than once child you love all of them? We have room in our hearts for love again-don’t be jealous of them just love us-that’s it, nothing more and accept us as is
2026-11-04 13:04:42
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donhudson313 :
My wife has been gone for 4 years. Her death was unexpected. She was my soul mate. I will always love her but l would like to meet someone.
2026-11-05 02:52:51
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NYORNOWHERE1 :
Ugh never again. He idolized a person I can tell was not good to him just bc she was no longer w us. It was awful.
2026-11-04 11:17:55
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Mountain Mermaid :
I had a widower show up still wearing his wedding ring 9 years after his wife passed from brain cancer. Although he was a wonderful, successful, famous man…I had to pass.
2026-11-03 23:26:18
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paulawachtel5 :
never again! no thanks
2026-11-04 10:04:54
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cfhoward48 :
Really good observations about a widower. My wife passed away 5 1/2 years ago and I haven’t dated and you’re right about living with the ghost of the spouse sets deceased. I loved my wife dearly. I speak to her every night and if and when I do find somebody else, my wife is still gonna be part of my life and that needs to be accepted, but I won’t do comparisons.
2026-11-04 19:43:51
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debdebdeb721 :
This is so true. Just experienced it for three years. Ugh
2026-11-04 11:38:34
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TheBossLady :
There is no such thing as being prepared to lose your spouse or any loved one. A long illness leaves you with trauma. Watching the person you love suffering doesn't go away when they pass. I would have rather lost my spouse suddenly than to watch him struggle and suffer.
2026-11-04 15:24:49
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Stephanie :
Very true, my ex's first wife was killed in a car accident. At first things were good but over the years she got put on a pedistal. You get tired of fighting a ghost. Plus he was a manipulate a-hole..
2026-11-04 04:36:31
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Ava 💞 :
🥰 There is nothing sweeter than being loved by someone who is proud to have you in their life. Someone who appreciates your presence, celebrates your achievements and never hides how much you mean to them. ❤️
2026-11-04 10:55:57
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Susan B :
Widow here. It just takes a very understanding person. Those rules don’t necessarily apply. The bonus is that we truly understand how special each day is. We love with our whole hearts.
2026-11-04 13:36:58
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Loras Salon Mississippi :
I’m a widow now of 2 years . Fellow at church 9 years my senior a widower of just one year . He introduced himself to me . However I can see he’s not in the right space at all . Sure I’m interested in him . It’s been 2 years for myself only 1 for him. Both of our partners died unexpectedly suddenly and very, very sad for the both of us. Only God knows.
2026-11-04 01:33:13
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Cheramie :
Sooo very true!!
2026-11-04 04:32:14
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beachchic5678 :
I’m finally ready to date🫣😊
2026-11-04 02:01:44
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T_in_Sydney :
actually no. a long drawn out death can leave them almost irretrievably traumatized
2026-11-03 23:26:44
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Just Jess in KC :
Two years after losing my husband of 20 years, I felt like I was finally ready to date. Honestly… I’m figuring so much out about myself! In a good way!
2026-11-04 13:42:32
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R.chris22 :
My fiancé passed away 10 years ago 50 days before our wedding. I am definitely ready to date. I was with a woman who expected me to take all but one picture down I only have 4 up on one shelf. She also stated for me to go get her. Not fair and definitely not right.
2026-11-04 00:51:26
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Debra :
well said,
2026-11-04 01:20:41
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sparky :
Thank you, your right
2026-11-04 01:00:23
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sweet lips :
100💯
2026-11-05 01:24:44
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onmynerves :
sooooo many of the profiles that say widower are Fakes🫤
2026-11-03 22:31:21
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That Crazy Hippie Chick :
So many “widowers” online are bots.
2026-11-04 02:03:48
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T :
the longer they are a widower, the more perfect the marriage was and the more amazing the ex becomes. I'm 68 and its a pass on these guys.
2026-11-04 02:28:22
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