@theactualjade: Pay attention to who pours into you, too 🤎 #reciprocity #boundarysetting #friendships

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odessacreates_4
Dessa ✨ :
Ended a 20 year friendship and when I tell you I feel so much more at peace.
2026-11-04 13:33:27
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mercytaughtme
mercytaughtme :
Sometimes you have to do annual reviews fr 😭
2026-11-04 18:40:53
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jessiewangxin
Jessie 🐼 :
Social media makes it feel like being connected 24/7 is normal and healthy, when it is not.
2026-11-04 21:03:57
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herivony09
herivony09 :
There's a book called "The Peace You Keep Giving Away" that talks about why some people feel responsible for everyone else's happiness. Such an important topic.
2026-11-04 16:04:59
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lexiepanther
♓️ :
Once you stop reaching out first, you’ll see who really shows up. Like why do I have to reach out first constantly?
2026-11-04 14:41:50
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anayamichelle_
Anaya Michelle :
I had to cut my bestie off because I truly felt like I was judged for EVERYTHING I did and she would do way worse😭 then I was always the one texting first after a dis agreement. She values her new friendship way more than she ever valued ours.
2026-11-05 00:53:11
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nospecificplanswithcat
nospecificplanswithcat :
Quality over quantity always!!!! 💅👏
2026-11-04 11:07:34
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kamo.keta
Kamo K :
And funny how once you are brave enough to let it all go, you won't even miss them 🤞🏽🤞🏽
2026-11-04 14:12:55
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singlenfineaf
singlenfineaf :
I hit like before you even finished the sentence
2026-11-04 02:18:02
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joy_e_star
Star⭐️ :
Last year I told my friend group very clearly that I wanted intentional friendships and that should start with each of us celebrating & gifting each other on our birthdays. Everyone agreed. Well they showed up for each other(I did too) and when it was my turn zero gifts, zero apologies. That's when I clocked it.😫😫. Now I don't talk to any of them and that energy I redirected to myself. I lost my longest relationships yes, but I deserve better. I deserve to be poured into like I do and I won't settle for less ever again.
2026-11-04 10:36:27
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_travelwithlala
Life with Toye 💗 :
Ended a 15 year friendship because of this !! Never felt better 🥰
2026-11-04 12:54:13
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icedtee4
Tee :
This was me with my highschool friendship group . No hate , we just don’t align no more .
2026-11-04 12:50:37
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jahbless1717
kaviourscott :
wat does the word friendship even mean😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
2026-11-05 13:54:09
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tatiana.xo1
Tati :
THANGYAAAAAAA
2026-11-05 19:51:35
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theglitterlife
TheGlitterLife :
The old sunken cost fallacy!
2026-11-05 03:21:12
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carolprotosgill
Carol Gill :
Great words
2026-11-04 23:45:21
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shawty_meeks
shawty_meeks :
Yuppppp
2026-11-05 00:40:01
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drblueknowledgeable
DrBlueknowledgable :
the movie “Bodies Bodies Bodies” shows the extreme product of this
2026-11-05 00:23:49
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ksp0307
Judge Judy :
I was always their friend, they were never mine! I ended it.
2026-11-04 14:54:17
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strawberryyybounce
Strawberry :
Yup! I pulled back completely on everybody I considered a friend because I realized they were never my true friends. They either used me or gossiped about me.
2026-11-04 14:11:54
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flygirlshai1
Shai. :
Something I’ve learned these last few years. History means nothing if they don’t show up the way you need them to.
2026-11-04 16:56:43
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blasian2badd__
blasian :
a person you’ve just met can be realer and better than a person you’ve known your entire life 💯❤️
2026-11-05 13:52:28
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becswink
becswink :
I needed to hear this. Thank you!!!!
2026-11-05 00:47:18
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thefuturedoctuh
Robin Genice :
I would send this to her, but I've already said most of this. Either she heard it, or she didn't
2026-11-05 14:07:55
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chelleasme
Chelle💖 :
Yesss! And it’s not to discredit any of your friends with history but sometimes we gain new friends because they are exactly what we need at that time in life as well!
2026-11-04 13:58:12
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