Ended a 20 year friendship and when I tell you I feel so much more at peace.
2026-11-04 13:33:27
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mercytaughtme :
Sometimes you have to do annual reviews fr 😭
2026-11-04 18:40:53
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Jessie 🐼 :
Social media makes it feel like being connected 24/7 is normal and healthy, when it is not.
2026-11-04 21:03:57
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herivony09 :
There's a book called "The Peace You Keep Giving Away" that talks about why some people feel responsible for everyone else's happiness. Such an important topic.
2026-11-04 16:04:59
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♓️ :
Once you stop reaching out first, you’ll see who really shows up. Like why do I have to reach out first constantly?
2026-11-04 14:41:50
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Anaya Michelle :
I had to cut my bestie off because I truly felt like I was judged for EVERYTHING I did and she would do way worse😭 then I was always the one texting first after a dis agreement. She values her new friendship way more than she ever valued ours.
2026-11-05 00:53:11
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nospecificplanswithcat :
Quality over quantity always!!!! 💅👏
2026-11-04 11:07:34
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Kamo K :
And funny how once you are brave enough to let it all go, you won't even miss them 🤞🏽🤞🏽
2026-11-04 14:12:55
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singlenfineaf :
I hit like before you even finished the sentence
2026-11-04 02:18:02
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Star⭐️ :
Last year I told my friend group very clearly that I wanted intentional friendships and that should start with each of us celebrating & gifting each other on our birthdays. Everyone agreed. Well they showed up for each other(I did too) and when it was my turn zero gifts, zero apologies. That's when I clocked it.😫😫. Now I don't talk to any of them and that energy I redirected to myself. I lost my longest relationships yes, but I deserve better. I deserve to be poured into like I do and I won't settle for less ever again.
2026-11-04 10:36:27
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Life with Toye 💗 :
Ended a 15 year friendship because of this !! Never felt better 🥰
2026-11-04 12:54:13
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Tee :
This was me with my highschool friendship group . No hate , we just don’t align no more .
2026-11-04 12:50:37
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kaviourscott :
wat does the word friendship even mean😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
2026-11-05 13:54:09
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Tati :
THANGYAAAAAAA
2026-11-05 19:51:35
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TheGlitterLife :
The old sunken cost fallacy!
2026-11-05 03:21:12
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Carol Gill :
Great words
2026-11-04 23:45:21
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shawty_meeks :
Yuppppp
2026-11-05 00:40:01
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DrBlueknowledgable :
the movie “Bodies Bodies Bodies” shows the extreme product of this
2026-11-05 00:23:49
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Judge Judy :
I was always their friend, they were never mine! I ended it.
2026-11-04 14:54:17
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Strawberry :
Yup! I pulled back completely on everybody I considered a friend because I realized they were never my true friends. They either used me or gossiped about me.
2026-11-04 14:11:54
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Shai. :
Something I’ve learned these last few years. History means nothing if they don’t show up the way you need them to.
2026-11-04 16:56:43
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blasian :
a person you’ve just met can be realer and better than a person you’ve known your entire life 💯❤️
2026-11-05 13:52:28
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becswink :
I needed to hear this. Thank you!!!!
2026-11-05 00:47:18
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Robin Genice :
I would send this to her, but I've already said most of this. Either she heard it, or she didn't
2026-11-05 14:07:55
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Chelle💖 :
Yesss! And it’s not to discredit any of your friends with history but sometimes we gain new friends because they are exactly what we need at that time in life as well!
2026-11-04 13:58:12
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