@highimpactclub: For years, I thought I needed more patience. What I actually needed were different skills. The two biggest ones were: ✨ The skill of Emotional Regulation — so my triggers stopped choosing my response for me. ✨ The skill of Mindsight — so I could understand what my child’s behavior was communicating instead of only reacting to what I saw. When you can regulate yourself and understand your child, everything changes. You stop trying harder... and start responding differently. That’s how Reactive Parents become Secure Parents. #consciousparenting #respectfulparenting #gentleparenting #marcelacollier