@persephonechang: If you make me guess where we stand, I will pick the answer for us and you probably won’t like it! #relationships #dating #ifhewantedtohewould
If it’s not a yes, it’s a no. If it’s unclear, it’s a no. If it’s not direct, it’s a no. If it’s wishy washy, it’s a no.
2026-11-04 23:41:41
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ceruleanverge :
This goes for friendships as well right?
2026-11-04 19:49:22
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Jon Shuffles :
never settle, if they are unsure run.
2026-11-04 03:24:36
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Jermon :
Sadly, if I’m wondering how you feel about me consistently then it reveals you don’t give a frick
2026-11-04 13:24:42
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karenfilessss :
And with a name like Persephone? QUEEN
2026-11-05 00:56:06
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Daunt :
Tbh I do not ask. People reveal their desire thru their actions, words are usually distractions
2026-11-04 11:25:10
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essencethedolll :
love a straight forward person
2026-11-04 20:41:38
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niiasinterlude :
if i'm wondering where i stand i will go stand elsewhere
2026-11-04 17:46:09
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ིྀKomfywomfy ིྀ :
dead ass. this protects you from a low quality experience!
2026-11-04 08:10:22
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iuv.lina :
This mindset helped me remove myself from meaningless hook ups, really learned I value myself and love myself to much to accept less then what I want which is a relationship and not a situationship
2026-11-04 05:29:40
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TheSketchit :
That is the absolute best mindset. I've done that before and I realize how much more at peace I am, when I'm not constantly guessing where things stand.
2026-11-04 02:40:22
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Sassmaster A :
He hasn’t. That’s perfect and better than asking why - thank you!
2026-11-05 01:59:14
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Sharkgirl_25🦈💙 :
I can wish ppl the best always but never speak to them ever again
2026-11-05 01:56:40
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UR DAD :
this woke me tf up
2026-11-05 02:28:13
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Sunstrider17 :
I agree it’s always good to keep it straight forward. It makes everything easier. No guessing, no headaches.
2026-11-04 06:28:38
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BasicGamerDad09 :
Some people are just people who need reassurance or revalidation that’s just human… I wouldn’t instantly jump to the conclusion that the person doesn’t care about you, but they might not be the type of person that gives you what you need, now this really depends on if it’s a friendship or a romantic relationship because if it’s a friendship, you’re not gonna always get validation from your friends, but if it’s a romantic relationship and you’re the type of person that just needs someone to reassure them then it’s good to have somebody who’s really empathetic. Sorry completely unsolicited old person advice.
2026-11-04 16:36:11
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manuelstires :
I think this is perfect, I just get too scared to ask where they stand
2026-11-04 02:31:22
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Jason T :
Im always an all in 100% type of relationship person. Im Chalant-maxxing and ill be full of whimsy and joy.
2026-11-04 08:36:33
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Jada☺️ :
Literally me asking is the grace, after that Im out! 😅
2026-11-04 09:53:20
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Kai :
Hearing how clear you are is helping remind me of how clear I should be in the future with people. Having niceties isn’t helping anyone. I like to be straight forward in my questions of others who why not this, too. Time to get uncomfortable again.
2026-11-04 07:37:29
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Domsym :
I’m no longer doing this, this was my biggest lesson 💯
2026-11-04 15:00:32
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Neto Hikari :
Okay but life is not back and white. It's multiple shades of gray.
2026-11-04 10:38:36
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Mili :
Can someone pls give me a text draft to set this boundary with a situationship? Because I love this and need to make it more clear about the whole “no gray area”
2026-11-04 21:06:51
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