@threadtalkpodcast: Thoughts on me (25m) reaching out to my ex (24f) from high school? #reddit #redditstories

McNoodleNZ :

Research first before potentially embarrassing yourself. Check her social media to see if she’s in a relationship/married. And if you do decide to reach out be upfront don’t disguise wanting to get back in touch as friends if that’s not what you actually want to get out of this scenario. It will feel like you were playing a long con if you do it that way and if she does reject wanting to get back together accept it and either move on or if she offers to rekindle the friendship decide if you will be fine with that or if you’ll try to get her to want to be with you the whole time. My personal opinion is that people are exes for a reason. Since she was the first person you were in a relationship with you may have rose tinted glasses about the experience