I think it’s very important to remember history here and what Berlin used to be and the walls that surrounded it. In a city where people were once trapped behind walls, drugs and sex became forms of escape and survival. You can’t understand Berlin’s sexual liberation without understanding what it was liberating itself from
2026-11-04 16:56:46
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Dana :
Omg that's why Elsa Mars was from Berlin
2026-11-05 13:34:50
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Hubbahubba-cawcaw :
It’s to do with the war and shame
2026-11-04 21:23:28
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ur mom (pronounced annie) :
i wanna be your friend so bad you’re so knowledgeable and beautiful
2026-11-04 14:08:47
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PieZen :
Since so much in Germany is about laws, rules and hierarchy a local tendency to like bdsm doesn’t seem far fetched 😅
2026-11-04 16:45:31
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letstalkalina :
You don't imagine how much of it I saw in conservative countries, just not in public
2026-11-04 14:10:29
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Tanya Bon dia :
i remember a black brit autistic kink content creator shared their experience in a kink club and how honest and upfront the culture is i love that!
2026-11-04 21:14:32
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Maria__cvl__444 :
so it's mainstream and people don't get surprised if someone brings up bdsm?
2026-11-04 21:32:08
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Frau Dingenskirchens :
I think our social club culture (vereinskultur) also plays a large role. Munches, monthly meetups etc have been a big gateway into the culture way before the internet made it so easily accessible and are to this day. If you can find our tribe early on instead of thinking „am I the only one“ it will lead to more people coming forward. You also touched on the fact that our laws are super liberal and sex ed has had a place even in popculture (Bravo magazine!) for decades…
2026-11-04 16:12:56
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Ur Father <3 :
all of a sudden i’m visiting germany
2026-11-05 12:12:41
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COVEN OF VENUS :
Historically Germany has deep collective cultural traumas and shames, due to Prussian Authoritarianism that demanded at absolute obedience, while inflicting severe corporal punishment, the Cold War, WW I and the infamy of WWII. Cultures with historically high levels of institutionalized discipline often develop parallel underground subcultures where those dynamics are eroticized or satirized. It’s clear many Germans found catharsis in BDSM dynamics as a means of survival, as coping methods, and also as a form of counter cultural rebellion. It allows many Germans to reclaim their bodily autonomy and sense of freedom. But yeah, it’s born out of sheer genetic trauma.
2026-11-05 14:13:08
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#6 the boss :
i love people like you who can discuss the nuances of any topic from a matter-of-fact standpoint. many nowadays see certain questions as weird or come at it from a huge bias. philosophical analysis is important
2026-11-04 22:49:02
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N.Gabrielle :
yes they do more. so are the Scandinavians
2026-11-04 17:57:41
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chilirice24 :
What happened to the video 10 reasons to get into BDSM did it get deleted?
2026-11-04 19:50:27
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Masoch :
Maybe I should move to Germany.
2026-11-05 03:26:26
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explicitandreal :
So find a German man got it
2026-11-05 17:13:39
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waswillstduanders :
ein normaler gemischter Freundeskreis on Deutschland Unterhält ich über kinks und co. 😅 bin immer wieder überrascht
2026-11-04 14:23:51
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Damian Limon :
Bc of the Pietism movement? (Similar to Puritans)
2026-11-06 03:41:40
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Orange Girl 🍊 :
I need to go 🫡
2026-11-05 06:24:19
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Beauty|Surgery|Wellness💎 :
Seems I need to move
2026-11-05 02:33:36
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🖤 :
While BDSM is very visible in Berlin I find that the parties and play are much tamer than the US and London (for example)
2026-11-04 20:34:10
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Justine :
Not really, Finland is far more BDSM friendly ✌️
2026-11-04 17:03:45
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🫦👻 :
Intellectual hot queen
2026-11-04 23:15:11
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bellamawdesley :
it’s funny you made this video because i was just thinking about this yesterday
2026-11-05 01:03:19
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mathildaIeskarl93181 :
Can you make a video on how to clean my depression room?
2026-11-04 14:20:06
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