@becomingnatalia: In September, I found out my husband had started an affair with someone I knew. I had two options. I could cry, beg, and show him a side of me that would only reassure him he was choosing the less stressful exit. Or I could choose peace. I chose peace. I walked away with no tears, and I actually thanked him for setting me free. Because if he hadn't, I would have kept choosing to make it work, no matter what it cost me. Since we split, we haven't fought once. He gets to watch me thrive: working out, getting stronger, and happily raising our children. Baby girl, your peace is the loudest answer you'll ever give. Follow along, we're healing together 🤍 #coparenting #cheating #HealingJourney #momlife #divorce

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gibblesandbitsandbits
Gibbles and bits :
His affair partner turned second wife HATED me like girl I didn’t do anything to YOU. 😳😳
2026-11-04 19:19:23
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tfitz912
YourUncleT :
Best Revenge is a life well lived.
2026-11-04 16:05:31
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that_tattooed_lady
that_tattooed_lady :
1 year later, they didn’t even last 2 months and he begged me not divorce him because he realized he was wrong. No thanks, I’m good
2026-11-05 17:17:13
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allwaysxj
Allways❤️ :
February 2027 will mark four years since our divorce, and he’s still with the affair partner. I wish I could say we’ve been able to successfully co-parent, but unfortunately, it’s more parallel parenting than anything. I’ve moved on, continuously working on myself and my healing. But it feels like every time I take three steps forward, I get pushed five steps back. And sadly, a lot of that has to do with his partner. He’s now taking me to court to essentially have it put in writing that I’m required to respect her as his significant other, as well as make changes to the current custody agreement to match her child’s custody agreement. It’s exhausting because my focus has been on moving forward, healing, and being the best mother I can be. Yet, I continue to find myself pulled back into conflict that I’ve been trying so hard to move beyond.
2026-11-04 23:44:09
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sammig90
Samantha :
goin through this myself and now they are bout to have their first child together any day now .. ( he just told me yesterday he can't wait for her to.be done with the pregnancy then proceeded to tell me I took all 3 of mine like a champ with medical issues compare to her and she had twins before this one )
2026-11-05 15:50:29
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craveworthybites
craveworthybites :
You described my situation to a T. We share the same story…even how I handled things after finding out. Grey rock theory as he absolutely villainized me and tried to tear me down. I’m 3 years out and still have moments of grief as healing isn’t linear. But yea…peace wins.
2026-11-05 15:09:35
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chun_flies85
zurilee :
I let him go and be with the new girl. After finding out he was already cheating with her. Well fews years later, his gf hits me up to let me know he loves her more than me bc he even tattooed her name on his neck. I congratulated her and asked her to please never contact me again. Just recently I found out, she left him for another man. The best revenge is to move forward in life, don’t look back and become a better version of yourself so you don’t allow this again. They see it and hate you for it😁
2026-11-05 21:08:24
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hth1234567789
Hth :
How do you handle dropping him off when she is there? Her being a part of my child’s life would KILL me.
2026-11-05 13:51:24
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kc.wild.child
KC Wild Child :
I am having an issue with her hanging out with my kids. How do you get over the jealousy that she’s spending time with my babies and I’m not
2026-11-04 17:18:26
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dianamite44
Diana-mite :
You run straight ahead at your future and don’t look back. You make your life so full of joy and peace and love that you only think about him when you coordinate child care. The biggest flex is that if he’s not in your line of sight, he’s not in your mind. And if you ever need the boost, remember: he wanted less, so he went and found less.
2026-11-04 21:40:58
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rose2232323
Rosangela ♑️ :
You put it perfectly! 🥰
2026-11-04 23:32:11
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trucker0004
Trucker0004 :
Very true kill them with kindness
2026-11-05 12:32:09
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bakingaf
bakingaf :
We have 3 kids and we’re married for 14 yrs. They already broke up. What a waste. Like for what?
2026-11-04 20:47:21
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moni2too
moni2too :
And it literally happened just like that. Never let them see you sweat.
2026-11-04 19:33:51
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williamtaylor945
mcdtaylor :
what does working on yourself mean?
2026-11-05 11:28:54
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sherriginsburg308
Sgins308 :
I’m building a life that revolves around my kids and myself. It is a great life!
2026-11-04 19:14:08
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sjade1991
Sable :
its sad how many of us can write the same story. hugs girls and cheers to our forever peace
2026-11-05 00:34:39
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bebecita_bella
Bella :
Yes he tells me all the time he’ll divorce her if I give him another chance. No baby I’m goooood she can keep you 🥰
2026-11-04 18:51:56
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kristenureskkidd
Kristen K :
I have done exactly this. He already married and divorced from her and is moved on to the next one. The kids tell me about them fighting all the time now. 😂
2026-11-04 18:00:11
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tonyamorgan577
Nanny T :
You have chosen the right path, like you I would have stayed if he hadn't set me free. But I strongly suggest that you help your kids to know their worth and hopefully they find their right person. My son married a female version of his dad and I can tell you this has hurt me more than what I want thru. I wish he could have seen a stranger me from the beginning.
2026-11-05 11:12:53
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the.pocket.fix
Gabriana Jade || SAHM 🍒🍼🎀 :
God built me back up brick by brick and I couldn’t be happier! He blessed me and my son with a man that loves us more than life itself!
2026-11-05 02:22:10
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villain_vixen
villain_vixen :
There right now, my replacement left him and now he’s been trying to get me back for months 🤣🤣🤣
2026-11-04 20:45:01
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itsme41124
Itsme41124 :
💯 That's exactly how my mom handled it. All class. And it made it so much easier for me and the other children involved.
2026-11-05 03:28:18
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notha11nks
notha11nks :
he wound up doing to her what he did to me. we're Facebook friends now. I'm not gonna lie I did a smirk and moved on with my life
2026-11-05 01:36:36
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sodakmom92
SoDakMom92 🌻 :
His affair turned into 5 different affairs with 5 different kids and he only sees two counting my son 😂😂😂
2026-11-04 21:13:21
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