@withethanlap: Being married to a type A woman means you have to schedule the spontaneity. @Sarah Lapierre #husbandwife #husbandwifehumor #typea #planning #spontaneous

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ivorypuddle
Orange Cat Energy :
We’re happy to go with the flow, but we need to know what time the flow starts, what we should wear for the flow, and whether there will be parking at the flow.
2026-11-04 20:15:00
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terri__k
Terri :
I’ve never heard someone explain me so well
2026-11-04 17:54:23
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hbellaver
Bella Ver :
Your wife is so lucky that you understand and accept this! 😂
2026-11-04 17:57:17
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bennybensonsmama
BennyBensonsMama :
Here’s a hint. You can expect her to be fine with spontaneous as long as you have covered ALL of the to do items that need to get done before l the weekend. Grocery shopping, house is cleaned, laundry is clean, folded and ready to go for the weekend ahead, meal prep for the week ahead, gift for the birthday party that is the following weekend is purchased and wrapped. All of those things happen over any weekend in my house because we are a 2 parent working family. I cannot relax and enjoy a spontaneous day on a whim if I don’t know how/when these things are getting done. Expecting her to push it all off to Sunday is not an acceptable answer.
2026-11-04 22:36:55
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therealkrystaltee
Krystal | AL Life Insurance :
I can easily go with the flow…as long as I knew when it’s flowing, how it flows, who it’s flowing to, what it’s flowing for, where it’s flowing to and why it’s flowing in the first place 😅
2026-11-04 20:32:30
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kim.ziem
kimziem :
I at least need the food plan. We have to have meal options planned.
2026-11-04 20:48:02
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katkittykatkatkatkatkat
Kassi :
This makes sense. Because you still need to know if you have to shift grocery shopping, cleaning, etc around the “spontaneous” day. Otherwise the whole week is thrown off
2026-11-07 00:31:20
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rhymenotreason_
RhymeNotReason_ :
We can all go with the flow… just wanna know the direction of the current and when we are going to exit
2026-11-04 18:56:03
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anniesacresofabundance
acresofabundance :
as long as it's because she's type a and not because you're gonna take her and the kids to the beach and you only decide halfway there and you arrive there with no sunscreen, swimwear or food... 😅
2026-11-07 02:53:19
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nanin.journal
Nanin journal :
It’s like I can go with the flow but first let me know where we are flowing [Ojos llorosos]
2026-11-06 19:44:04
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becbecmuffin
becbecmuffin ✡️🩷💜💙 :
we need to prepare ourselves. (I'm not type A, just anxious and neurodivergent)
2026-11-04 22:25:27
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anastasia.stoj
Anastasia S :
I LOVE how much you know your wife. So many husbands are just absolutely oblivious to what makes their wives happy and then they are upset that they are not getting any.
2026-11-05 15:41:00
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waitforit7777777
waitforit :
That is because we have already experienced and predicted melt downs from the kids. I was a planner but kids made me even more so! It is NOT fun being with kids unprepared
2026-11-04 21:08:55
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taw.feeqp
taw.feeq :
"The Peace You Keep Giving Away" is about something a lot of women deal with. Always being understanding, always saying yes, and somehow feeling bad when they finally choose themselves.
2026-11-05 23:56:34
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animalmama1995
tami :
saving this video to show my husband. I can be spontaneous if its planned.
2026-11-05 20:03:09
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dveha137
Kat & Django :
Meh, Spontaneity is overrated. It’s like someone giving you an all-inclusive resort pass in Aruba. It sounds nice but you now have to reorganize your work schedule, get someone to watch the dog, research and buy plane tickets, etc.
2026-11-05 00:37:46
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goldieramey
Golden :
My birthday is coming up and my bf told me “We’re going on a trip. We’re leaving at noon on the 8th and the drive is going to be 3hrs. We’ll be back home the 10th. We’re going to go on a hike the 9th and you’ll need to pack a swimsuit.” Now i can live in peace and let him surprise me with whatever else it is since my brain has a little plan blueprint😂😂
2026-11-05 18:55:43
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afinityb
AB 🌻 :
no truly fighting demons because let me go out somewhere in sandals when i should have been wearing sneakers and i WOULD HAVE wore sneakers had i known it was a sneaker type place and now im uncomfortable and overstimulated by sandals FELONY OFFENSE
2026-11-05 14:51:37
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roxyxoxo07
𝑅𝑜𝓍𝓎 𝓛𝑜𝓅𝑒𝓏 🤎🍦 :
Just give me enough time to prepare the outfits lol
2026-11-04 19:48:35
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stephlock17
Steph Cheslock :
Because after Wednesday we already have Saturday mapped out! You get it.
2026-11-04 21:14:47
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marlylolidk
seafish456 :
i love when he surprises me but i say just give me a heads up if its casual or fancy. I need to plan what to wear, how much time to get ready, what I have to pack in my bag.
2026-11-04 20:10:59
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beverlybutton19
Beverly Button19 :
That would never happen to me. My husband has never made a spontaneous decision in his life. He's never made a decision.
2026-11-04 20:24:43
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raquell2345
RaquelL :
Best trick I’ve found for myself is to have an anchor plan. My son has soccer 9-10 on Saturdays. We are up, out of the house, so no additional getting ready is needed. Spontaneity can commence.
2026-11-06 15:02:37
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hay_marla
HayMarla :
Yes!! I plan to have no plan. 😁
2026-11-05 19:55:55
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a_wazzy_wazzy
Abbi Lowe :
I'm type C, I'm so busy all the time that I do need a plan for things a lot of the time, but I also hit points where I don't want to be decisive about anything and am very go with the flow
2026-11-05 19:11:03
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