@afamichaelofficial: Imagine spending months or even years dating someone, believing you know them, only to discover after your wedding that the person you married is completely different from who they presented themselves to be. Unfortunately, this is the reality for some people. A man who appeared God-fearing, loving, responsible and committed during courtship suddenly becomes someone his wife can barely recognise after marriage. But here’s something we need to talk about. Before marriage, how intentional are you about truly getting to know the person you’re planning to spend the rest of your life with? Do you know your values? Are you building those same values in yourself? Are you asking the uncomfortable questions, or are you so excited about getting married that you’re overlooking important things? It’s not just about finding someone who says they love God. It’s about understanding their convictions, their character, their beliefs and how they live when nobody is watching. And most importantly, don’t underestimate the place of spiritual discernment. Sometimes everything may look right on the outside, but deep down, you sense that something isn’t adding up. #MarriageAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #ChristianDating #Discernment #marriage

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