Grow with Kaela
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Christ wins :
o man. she never thanked me. she cheated. but im still the villain in the story
2026-11-08 23:42:56
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ItalianPizzaSecrets 🍕 :
My avoidant was saying constantly thank you 🤔
2026-11-05 06:50:23
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userTracyTrace :
YESSSS.....also NVR an I'M SORRY...no matter wattttt🥺🥺🥺
2026-11-04 21:15:37
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QMolly :
This is absolutely so accurate. I noticed the thank yous and compliments completely dried up a couple of years before the end. 🙄
2026-11-04 20:28:12
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joshuastarks :
it is so interesting how well these behaviors track despite it being person to person
2026-11-08 17:26:39
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steve atwell :
thank you for this. explanation of their more nuanced behavior is very much appreciated!
2026-11-07 16:35:24
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Angela♌️ :
Thank you for your videos! I feel so validated by them.
2026-11-04 20:26:01
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Bpunchy :
Not true .. I say thank you..I havd learned over time that i need to do that
2026-11-05 01:14:37
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renee_grier :
I don’t get a thank you most of the time. I can’t believe a 45 year old man doesn’t think he needs to say thank you.
2026-11-04 23:39:01
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Michael :
My time with the avoidant I found this so strange, in the phase where the Avoidant comes on strong appreciation seams genuine, especially for my efforts in planning dates, the response to a complement was “oh you’re so sweet” or “you spoil me” but rarely thank you. Once they become vulnerable; feel accountable, to the connection, appreciation disappears. You can almost see the hesitation if they say thank you, I appreciate you or the rare I’m sorry; they have crossed the line of making you feel close. The “you are so sweet” has evaporated. The avoidant I was with went as far as putting words in my mouth saying “I know you told me to never say sorry or apologize” which I never said at all.
2026-11-05 01:49:39
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Chicago5154 :
Are you in my house? Are you just observing what's going on in my life with my dismissive avoidant ex-girlfriend? You have her down to a T.
2026-11-05 03:52:52
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christophercirrin :
Good one Kaela - so on point it ain’t even funny
2026-11-04 23:30:47
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Matt :
Peel the onion
2026-11-05 05:15:06
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coyote :
You are so amazing with your knowledge of this subject.. thanks again friend
2026-11-04 22:21:02
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abc123 :
This!!! And why do they stop complementing? He use to tell me how beautiful I was almost daily now I can’t remember the last time. So weird!
2026-11-05 13:58:19
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Ichris, I'll touch the sun ☀️ :
It’s crazy. She’s been thanking me a lot lately. Still such a situationship. 🤦🏼♂️
2026-11-05 02:44:34
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Christine Joy Thomps :
Omgggggggggggg
2026-11-05 00:47:46
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Flip_Fresh :
So true
2026-11-05 04:55:25
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niftydad :
Correct , and never sorry.
2026-11-05 11:08:42
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🌷𝓚𝔂𝓵𝓲𝓮🌷 :
hit that nail on the head.
2026-11-05 16:43:59
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Dspshake :
Thank you for saying this
2026-11-06 02:19:23
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Rosie's Kitchen :
I never got a thank you from my avoidant
2026-11-05 10:23:29
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SURAJ :
so true
2026-11-05 10:15:40
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cold.archivess :
Do da’s genuinely care about the problem or? 😭
2026-11-05 13:17:49
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