or hot take: if it goes well we can move to a second location lol
2026-11-05 13:01:14
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Anthonyhelena_ :
That coffee hit my system and that date is over in 15min 😭
2026-11-05 03:15:09
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Hannah :
That or icecream
2026-11-05 03:48:54
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big_jefe85🇻🇮 :
Exactly!! The internet has fooled women into thinking its bare minimum
2026-11-05 02:48:56
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bonniehoudini :
A walk downtown is a first date 😂 I’m old school too.
2026-11-05 11:39:51
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Brittany the Esthi Educator 🫧 :
I love non performative dates. What do you do in a regular day. Let’s do that.
2026-11-05 11:53:49
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HotCheetah :
Yes, 1 hr is a normal first date length.
2026-11-05 01:35:45
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jess :
Well I didn’t even know this was a thing because coffee dates and a stroll outside is the best in my opinion. I wouldn’t go to dinner for a first date. Weird and fake imo
2026-11-06 09:52:19
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nyx🪽 :
Coffee is like the trial run before a real date. It’s like speed dating
2026-11-05 12:47:07
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Senex :
I prefer a beer or a drink, but sure coffee works.
2026-11-06 09:26:07
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The Crimson Bright :
Exactly. I don’t even know how my nervous system feels sitting next to you yet. Dinner? - Calm down.
2026-11-06 08:52:06
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Princess.Sephyy~ :
It’s because coffee requires you to have a real time conversation with another human being without quick dopamine distractions
2026-11-06 09:47:25
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Claudia :
I HATE dinner dates for first dates. They feel awkward and it feels like theres too much pressure. Getting coffee or ice cream is perfect. If the first date is good THEN im okay with going to dinner at another time, but im not sitting down and having a meal with a man that I dont know and dont know if ill even like
2026-11-05 04:10:58
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ali :
I agree, but I wouldn’t consider coffee a date—it’s more so a meet and greet for a real date imo
2026-11-06 00:45:09
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senturyfox :
same! it don’t gotta be long too like a good likkle 2-3 hoursssss
2026-11-05 01:10:26
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J :
What about going all in and playing house in a Hotel, not saying intimacy, just two queen beds, a TV, picnic groceries??? Could be fun to hang out watch a little TV, share some doom scrolling maybe take a Tub? 180 out of phase from a coffee date.
2026-11-05 03:31:46
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kolo Florence :
whatever u are doing rn pause it and search up The Audacity to Upgrade by Stella Vane
2026-11-05 15:13:43
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阿 :
Girls, "The Peace You Keep Giving Away" is worth looking into if you're always overthinking and worrying about disappointing everyone around you.
2026-11-05 23:54:56
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Apryl :
The date sets the tone for your standards, not the man’s. A date is for the woman. Accepting a coffee date to a man tells them you accept the bare minimum. Remember, men do not think like us. I’d love to just have a FaceTime call as a first date tbh, so I don’t have to leave the house, but that’s not setting a good example 😂
2026-11-05 18:31:21
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Touch of Chante :
Real hot take: everyone’s different & that’s okay
2026-11-05 20:04:41
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Taniyaaa :
that’s the thing is that EVERYONE has their own preferences. the issue is that men are trying to convince women to change their minds or call them weird/greedy. Find someone that agrees with your vibe/is compatible instead of trying to convince someone they’re wrong for what they want in their dating life.
2026-11-05 17:58:48
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catie123333 :
agreeee !! i think if coffee date goes well then second date can be more elaborate and formal
2026-11-04 23:52:22
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e⭐️ :
ppl saying “i don’t like coffee” as if they have no free will and coffee shops don’t sell other drinks is actually frying me 😭😭😭
2026-11-05 10:56:54
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shawn :
100000%%%%% coffee and a walk through a park/city
2026-11-05 04:16:01
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JessyJay :
Dinner dates will always win in my book. Idk I guess the people I meet know how to hold conversations cuz we can sit and talk for hours
2026-11-05 14:48:01
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