To be fair, they don't teach you to abandon yourself .....they hold their boundaries firmly and others choose to abandon themselves to win over the avoidant. When we teach people that avoidants "condition you" it takes away the agency of people who are choosing to stay. Avoidants are given far more power than is necessary.
2026-11-05 08:24:07
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DEVIL.ALL.DAY :
The more you suffer, the more it shows you really care, right? Yeeeeah ahhh.
2026-11-04 21:06:10
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M :
So this morning he sent me a really nice voice note saying he couldn’t wait to talk to me later. It’s later and no replies to my simple and kind message. And I’ve just been waiting it out.
2026-11-05 02:53:04
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Grammie :
like training a puppy. I'm in the kennel (blocked) because I growled (called him out about having to have control)
2026-11-05 04:21:26
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kenneth blanco802 :
you are 💯 😊
2026-11-04 23:21:43
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Phoenix :
they are a FAILED NARCISSIST
2026-11-05 10:12:25
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