@bennylichtenwalner: If your ex left out of nowhere without raising one problem, that silence was the warning sign. With a dismissive avoidant, you usually get about three to six months of vulnerability up front, then it dwindles down to nothing. They won't give you clarity on the breakup either, and chasing gets met with extreme resistance. There is a way to fix this, with some no contact time and a complete strategy for reconnecting. Did they leave out of nowhere? DM me WHIPLASH and I'll message you back.