@shaythethey: Being attractive can make you into a trophy or ego boost for others in dating. Few people have the courage to approach appropriately or seriously. If ever you approach others they quickly use the gesture as an ego stroke and often publicize it to others more than they even communicate with you. Many people only want to date you to make themselves look and feel good rather than being good to you. When you’re attractive it becomes difficult for many to still see you as a human an not an object upon which they can prop their ego. #attractive #prettyprivilege #ego #dating #shaythethey
I’m constantly lusted after and have been sexualized since I was 13. I have never experienced genuine love and it has made me lose all hope.
2026-11-05 00:30:15
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A Lesbian named Nicole :
being pretty gets you treated bad FR
2026-11-04 23:53:31
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mikiimikayla :
I’m sick of being an ego helper
2026-11-05 02:54:27
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Tiffany Marie :
I know a date is going to go nowhere the moment they utter “you must get hit on all the time” or “ I bet you got so many guys in your phone” that pretty much, let me know that I’m going to be seen is nothing more than a conquest
2026-11-05 01:48:26
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Andygirl :
they hate you because they like you, it's a bizarre dynamic
2026-11-05 12:35:05
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amberlyetc :
And you give the guy you’re not physically attracted to a chance thinking he’s the nice guy, and now you just boosted his ego and he thinks he can pull now so he actually ends up being worse 🙃
2026-11-05 15:56:29
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lopsidedapricot :
People in relationships will conceal their partners and flirt with you just to see if they could pull you if they were single. We can’t even take what seems to be genuine interest at face value because everybody is playing a game
2026-11-04 23:14:08
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Renique McIntosh :
I’m tired Shay… I’m tired!
2026-11-12 07:10:07
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Vanezz.A :
The sex jokes be lame
2026-11-05 02:50:01
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Aaliyah | Krulkopkind®️ :
I stopped dating because of this, they either use you as a trophy or to humble you... I'm not sticking around to figure out which one 🤣
2026-11-05 05:01:12
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juju ❤️🔥🖤 :
dawg……. i get so much attention because im pretty with a nice body and im not flattered by the attention because i know its just lust smh
2026-11-05 01:29:44
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Summer Cheree :
I only get lusted over. That’s all. After I don’t give in, then comes the insults…now I’m a skinny nerd, crazy bih, and everything else 🥹
2026-11-05 01:35:24
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PapiFresh92 :
I hate it , it’s like they always try to humble you ever chance they get
2026-11-05 02:08:20
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Yasmin M. :
Shay stop reading my diary pleaseeeeee
2026-11-12 18:07:11
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Mai Kia Xiong :
If you are beautiful, you are meant to maintain incredibly high standards in both your friendships and romantic partnerships. If you don’t, exactly what she warned about will happen.
2026-11-05 00:38:43
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Ashlee :
It’s tiring
2026-11-04 22:45:24
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Jasan Delson :
This is tru i hate it sooo bad it turns me away from ppl now
2026-11-11 18:56:47
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floofarian persiancat💓 :
its lust and ego
2026-11-05 01:13:27
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Yari ⚜️ :
People use you as a keychain
2026-11-05 02:53:03
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pppp222 :
I dated a guy who was considered ugly (i never thought he was) and I’m not even all that attractive myself but everyone told him how they couldn’t believe i was with him and he hated me for it and hated that people liked me
2026-11-06 14:26:06
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Percatric :
I stopped caring I just do me now
2026-11-05 01:53:18
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Samara :
I’m constantly being sexualixed
2026-11-05 00:21:36
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Denim :
Jokes on them, I’m Asexual
2026-11-05 01:39:08
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lifewbri_bby :
I can tell by how they greet me nowadays
2026-11-05 02:00:25
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