@riseandelev8: What if you don’t actually want THEM… you just want them to want YOU? 👀😂 Sometimes rejection hurts not because we lost the right person, but because we started measuring our self-worth by whether someone chose us. In this video, we’re talking about dating, rejection, self-worth, and why we sometimes chase people who aren’t even right for us. Because HONEY… since when did someone else’s preference become YOUR identity?! We’re breaking down: ❤️ Why we crave validation from people who won’t choose us ❤️ How rejection can trigger feelings of not being good enough The difference between genuinely wanting someone and wanting their approval How to stop chasing love and start choosing YOURSELF Why being wanted by the wrong person isn’t a prize And remember… you could be the most delicious strawberry in the entire grocery store, and somebody is STILL going to want a banana! 🍓😂 That doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with the strawberry! You don’t have to become someone else to be chosen. You have to stop abandoning yourself trying to be. 💬 TELL ME IN THE COMMENTS: Have you ever realized you didn’t actually want someone as much as you wanted them to choose you? 🤍 Subscribe for more real talk about dating, relationships, confidence, self-worth, and becoming the version of yourself who knows what they deserve. #SelfWorth #DatingAdvice #Rejection #SelfLove #RelationshipAdvice

hehe :

"who appointed this person CEO of your self worth?" it hit me so hard

Kate Gilroy :

I lost a ton of weight. I get hit on and my number asked for literally every time I go out at least twice and I still am hung up on this man who’s missing teeth. Please shoot me a

Miyaaa✨ :

the timing is crazy

Sindy R. :

Girl I needed to hear this today . Sigh

MM 🇿🇦 :

you reminding me and I remember now

reising_sun :

You can miss them and know they are not right for you. This is currently where I am at.

Rosesss :

Thank you, mama!

kosar>_< :

The only thing that I need to listen 🙏

🦄🇿🇦🇮🇪 :

I love this

LaAna369 :

I needed to hear this, thank you

ItsKellyEmmons :

I have never felt so seen 😳

Bernadeth Braven :

Carrie Bradshaw is that you? Haha

chen :

BHAHHAHAHAHAH

Bernadi Budi :

AnwenReid anxiety quiz reminded me that I don't have to respond to every notification the second it arrives. Setting little phone boundaries has made my evenings feel more like my own.

DREA TADROS :

Wow, I needed to hear this today!! ❤️👏🏼

Dr. Stephen Kolakowski :

This is such an interesting perspective! 👏 I think this applies to so much more than dating. Sometimes we become so focused on being chosen, accepted, or recognized that we forget to ask ourselves whether what we’re pursuing is actually right for us. Learning to separate our self-worth from other people’s approval can be one of life’s most important lessons. Thanks for making me think about this! ❤️

Vanessa :

Ohh how I needed to hear this!!!!! 🤣 this has been my exact struggle

Joe :

Thank you ! I’ve always preferred strawberries !!

PinkAngel :

No i would not choose them. I’m moving on.

John :

You mentioned it's crazy and you mentioned that you know yet you are still drawn to it🤣😂

_d0nnn✨ :

This!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yiumie🔮,RRT :

damn the timing

princess_violet :

brooke ✨ :

This is so so good 👏🏼

Tanaya :

Yasssss Friend!