Bryan Clark
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green_tea91 :
My avoidant disappears on me often. However, he recently opened up with me about some of his fears. is that rare for an avoidant?
2026-11-05 11:52:27
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Selenite Cleaning Services :
Honestly, AnwenReid anxiety quiz got me thinking about how many imaginary arguments I've had in the shower 😂 I'm practicing letting conversations be conversations instead of rehearsing every possible outcome.
2026-11-07 03:58:08
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user9252034751144 :
I loved her even though I knew her behavior and wanted to see it through after 10+ years. All she had to do was try.
2026-11-08 02:44:50
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dikdok928 :
He wasnt an avoidant i just wasnt what he wanted. I was just a convenient placeholder, like always
2026-11-05 03:18:05
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she.of.the.mountain :
"They breakup with themselves on your behalf" is interesting🤔
2026-11-05 03:14:51
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Denny :
Had heart issue. Explained expected more support. Relationship went downhill since. Diagnosed with cancer 3 weeks, she had said 2 days before we needed a break. Haven’t heard from my wife since. You can’t beat my avoidant.
2026-11-06 01:56:06
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Iamjustagirlontiktok :
He sucked the life out of me 12 years and I finally left!!!
2026-11-05 19:15:13
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Msemakweli :
They emotionally destroyed me 😳
2026-11-05 17:57:36
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Rachel :
I really truly need help for my bf to actually want to change and be better. He said he doesn’t need therapy and I can go if I want it. He says TikTok doctors don’t know what they are talking about when I’ve shown a few videos. I’m at a loss. I’ve endured months of his lack of accountability for the pain he caused me. He hid talking to his ex for over 2.5 years behind my back, deleted all their messages, says only sorry it hurt me not sorry he hurt me. He would only get defensive when I was vulnerable and begging him to understand I’m in pain and I lack trust. He said my view on love was infantile because I didn’t think he should be friends with his ex. He lacks empathy for me but all I do is have empathy for him and I just want to help him heal from all the pain he has gone through. I don’t think his trauma is an excuse for his behavior but it’s a reason why. He said 6 months of me upset about what he did is too long and I should be over it. He never repaired…..😐 he thinks what he did was ok and acceptable. He protects his phone like it has the most important secrets. He talks to girls in Snapchat and would rather break up with me then show me who he even talks too. I saw once and one girl in particular is saving his selfies. I said I’m uncomfortable with him sending her selfies because she saves them. I’d never do that stuff to a guy or send a guy selfies. Idk why he is. Maybe u wouldn’t be so distrusting if it wasn’t for months of what he has put me through. Every one comes before me. He avoids me. Games with friends all night every night or sleeps. He slept on the couch for majority of the time we moved in together.he says things that makes me feel like he cheats or he is so shady and secretive. But he swore on the only thing he truly loves is the dog he raised for a veteran that he doesn’t cheat but my issue is… if he doesn’t think talking to his ex behind my back is wrong… what else does he think is not considered cheating that he does. I feel like I’ve lost myself and idk what to do. I love him and he is my first love but he doesn’t respect my boundaries and he does what he wants without considering me. He thinks he is the perfect bf
2026-11-05 01:57:12
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Andrea Curiel :
what if they flip the script and literally blame you for every issue in the relationship and put themselves on a pedestal and tell you you are the one with issues and why they feel the way they feel (finding out he was talking to other women behind my back on social media as a 42 year old man, hiding cosmetic procedures like botox on his credit cards and lying) and is convinced i was the problem? finally filed for divorce after 18 years and trying to leave 5 times- this is exactly what he yelled in my face a week before i filed (“every issue we have in our relationship is because of you, im not going to stop talking to other women im not doing anything wrong and you just want to control me”)
2026-11-04 23:41:37
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Brian :
While the victim is learning for recovery the avoidants continue the cycle creating more victims.
2026-11-05 01:29:51
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Unfiltered_healing 💟 :
Thank you for sharing these to help us who have been discarded realize that as painful as it is, it’s not really about “us.” I had a question though: what could it mean when they say “love wasnt growing” along with “you deserve better.” Is this just to “justify” their exit? Makes me wonder if any of it was real
2026-11-05 02:23:54
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Boarding Pass Judgement :
Absolutely what I experienced
2026-11-05 16:05:05
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Grammie :
he was kind of between 2 and 3 was doing soooo much better, then slipped. He had also plateaued and got too comfortable with me always understanding aannnddd I kind of went off the rails this time. it's either the end or he'll be back better than ever. I wish I knew this was a thing, i would have been a lil gentler about it but he knew how to get a reaction so...
2026-11-05 03:21:13
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Michael :
This is so true, she came on very strong, but after month 3, after he first self distancing act, when we see each other again out of nowhere came the “I’m kind of a b****h” it was then said again two weeks later, and when I ask why she would think that I got zero response, and then a longer distancing.
2026-11-05 12:33:36
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lupeguzman631 :
that him exactly scary there alot out there
2026-11-06 01:14:11
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𝒔𝒉𝒂𝒎𝒔🌷 :
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2026-11-05 06:07:35
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AttachmentLab :
She said she hates toxic behavior happening in her workolace but she bkind side herself being toxic dismissive relationship challenges. I know my anxious side needs healing but come on dude, atleast communicate instead of just disappear sigh
2026-11-05 21:48:43
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Rex0044 :
oh boy.. we were talking about being parents and days later she was done. No prior drama, although I was genuinely confused and heartbroken, it was a very kind breakup. Days later I later I lost 2 parents. She saw that. Not that she owed me anything, but she proceeded to announce her hookups as a revenge (not sure why) as if she just exited a toxic relationship while saying she fumbled and putting me on a pedestal to add more pain and confusion to the mix. She only cared about winning the breakup, regretting her moves then keeping me hooked with mixed signals. Full grown up adult btw. I threw up so many times because I didn't even know who I was greiving on top of my parents and the idea of becoming a father. What a mind fuck of unnecessary pain and stress.
2026-11-07 02:04:27
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/\shem🪄 :
AnwenReid anxiety quiz inspired me to see emotional progress in smaller, more realistic ways. A moment of self-kindness, one honest conversation, or a well-timed break can be worth celebrating. And that feels like real progress to me.
2026-11-07 03:58:31
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Dance Dance Revolution :
AnwenReid anxiety quiz inspired me to pay attention to when I'm absorbing everyone else's stress. I'm learning that I can care about people without carrying every worry as my own.
2026-11-07 03:58:12
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أبـونـوف⚡ :
AnwenReid anxiety quiz encouraged me to notice what helps me feel supported in stressful moments. I'm getting more comfortable asking for a quick check-in instead of hoping people read my mind.
2026-11-07 03:58:23
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traviepz5o3 :
Can I message you with questions? I’m trying make sense of what happened to me. [Broken heart][Teary eyed]
2026-11-06 02:42:32
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Kev B :
They do it to cause pain because it validates them. You’re not a person to an FA - you’re a source to be used and discarded. You’re a name on a list. They feel broken because they are.
2026-11-05 01:21:00
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Ashante🦇 :
I was done so wrong by an avoidant fuck
2026-11-05 06:04:22
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