Why does the one leaving get to be happy? im dying
2026-11-05 11:50:10
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Pearl :
with a partner, you should just stay till you hate them tbh. so much easier that way
2026-11-05 03:39:51
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gabby :
idk i’ll come back to this comment in 2028
2026-11-05 16:44:16
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Caitlin Wns :
Until you find the cord cutting ritual that works for you
2026-11-05 13:52:34
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lil :
girl I literally do not know, it’s been three days and I’m losing my sht
2026-11-05 02:20:34
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ansley_ryan :
After about 6 months all I can say, is remember that this is your life. You have to do the things that make you grow & feel better. You had so much love for that person and now it has no where to go, pour it into yourself, friendships, hobbies, family, things that will pour it right back to you. take care of you. take care of your heart <3
2026-11-05 05:28:31
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Addie🪿 :
Everyones saying months... its been 6 years for me and it has NOT gotten better! Even after intensive therapy. Hope this helps 🥰
2026-11-05 08:05:40
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k4y |-/ :
Approaching 2 months and I still have my moments where my chest hurts, I panic thinking of him with someone else, and most of all cry. But it has gotten so much better. The most important thing you can do is let yourself feel these things.
2026-11-05 10:40:25
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Kikiii :
year and a half later this shit is not getting easier
2026-11-05 04:46:59
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Thomas Moore :
I’m on month 4. Depending on the circumstances I still miss the person I fell in love with, but I do not miss the one I left. Everything will be okay. Keep the ones that do love you close and in time everything will work out
2026-11-05 09:32:37
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N.🐢🌱 :
I’ve been there.. and I felt like my world is falling apart. He was the only person I talked to. My best friend and now I have no one. But I lost myself with him. Gave him everything and didn’t get it back. I owe it to myself to love myself again and to let go, even when it’s hard… it will get earlier trust me. Just spend time with yourself, take care of yourself and give that love to yourself. You deserve it first🩷
2026-11-13 20:28:01
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bigmehboula03 :
We spoke since secondary ended it last yr December I have only been able to get over him in September I’m in second year uni now x
2026-11-13 18:04:26
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nads_bby :
took me 3-4 with jesus is help
2026-11-13 22:56:45
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🌸 :
Honestly Like 2 weeks (if you were already mentally checked out in the relationship)
2026-11-13 19:04:34
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Tyron :
Im sharing the same expérience, i dont Even know if we can completely heal ourselves
2026-11-13 14:27:49
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Kaylynn :
It’s been 2 weeks and it’s getting worse no joke I don’t know what to do
2026-11-05 04:36:17
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Satorinqaa :
for me its always been the same time as much as i have been with them so for example 1 year and 3 months i was healing 1 year and 3 months
2026-11-12 14:25:30
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🇵🇸Zara مفتي :
It’s been 7 months. I think about him every single day
2026-11-05 06:04:21
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Celebi88 :
You just gotta go out there and start doing stuff. You’ll be alright.
2026-11-05 09:55:43
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Kenna :
7 months for me. I have NEVER been happier, more calm and relaxed. My acne is gone, I’m sleeping so well, my appetite has returned and my body tells me everyday I made the right decision.
2026-11-06 00:23:44
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thee_uomi :
It never really goes away you just learn how to live with it and how to make the best out of it. It’s a part of you now. Show up for yourself and love yourself and it gets easier.
2026-11-05 16:40:42
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Kalepa Omega :
It’s been over a year. I still don’t trust to open up to anyone
2026-11-05 12:45:20
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Sarah Dixon :
Going on 7 months. I cry all the time. Idk. Let me know if you find out
2026-11-06 00:39:29
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idek. :
You never do, he’s been haunting my mind for monthsss
2026-11-05 21:26:32
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Aisha :
For everyone asking honestly it doesn’t get better. It gets easier to love yourself though. That is the key. The same way you loved them and rooted for them you are going to slowly do for yourself. All that energy you poured into them will be poured right back into you. It’s been 8 months for me and it hurts in moments. I still wish him the best with his new partner but I’m realising the pain I caused him was nothing to what he did to me a year prior. My friends sat with me. They didn’t pressure me into anything. They just let me cry, talk, and sat with me. It gets easier just be nice to yourself through it all
2026-11-06 03:43:12
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