@lesteradhd: For neurodivergents, not all your friends are your friends. Some are just addicted to your child-like life force and youthful energy. They love your hyper-competent brain when you are saving the day in a crisis, but the second you take that energy away, the script completely flips. You became useful because it gave you a sense of belonging. They happily exploit your compliance while you carry the entire load. The second you set a boundary and say "no," they start acting weird. They are starving for the free juice you used to provide. Because they can no longer manipulate you, they have to frame you as the bad guy to protect their own ego. You become the villain the moment your boundaries stop feeding the lopsided relationship. Did everyone start glitching the first time you stood your ground? Let me know below. 👇 #Neurodivergent #AuDHD #LateDiagnosedAutism #settingboundaries #hyperindependence

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bambi.blonde
bambi.blonde :
They literally become predatory, if you say no or cut them off they go crazy.
2026-11-05 10:51:08
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mystic.farah
mystic.farah 🧿 :
My childlike energy is gone 😔 I think they destiny swapped me
2026-11-07 16:16:52
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camskyechloeluv
camskyechloeluv :
I dont have any friends cus I figured this out a long time ago
2026-11-05 08:06:15
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dos.puntos.pe
:p :
The best part of the workbook I tried after Аnwen 𝖱eid anxiety quiz for me was the invitation to reflect without judging myself. That mindset has made journaling feel comforting instead of like another assignment.
2026-11-08 16:55:32
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otxoainthebranches
☾ 𝓞𝓽𝔁𝓸𝓪 𓃦 :
As someone with autism, I’ve learned ppl don’t talk to me to be friends they talk to me to try to take advantage—-the number of times I’ve had ppl come up to me and say we’re friends or you’re my new best friend and I had no desire to be friends with that person
2026-11-05 13:40:46
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am.orie
am.orie :
Some ppl meet me and decide “we”-‘re going to be friends without any green social cues from me. When I notice they’re attempting to attach themselves to me I ghost. I’ve had people try to approach me or put me in uncomfortable situations because of this. I’ve had a stalker. A lot of these ppl are sticky as hell and have no boundaries I don’t even wanna go out anymore or be easily accessible it’s that serious.
2026-11-05 10:41:41
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celine_thedream
🧿Celine_theDream🧿 :
I cut off someone this weekend because of the negative energy they bring and they literally blacked my eye …so yes it does get abusive literally
2026-11-05 21:36:14
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nicknoctus
Nick Noctus :
I think it's important to remember none of it was personal. That's their way and their system. When misaligned just walk away.
2026-11-08 17:27:16
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firrenzi
firrenzi :
I deal with people as if they are addicts or recovering addicts and it makes more sense
2026-11-08 22:53:36
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lollslife247
AllabouttheLolls :
Ive taken all my energy and am pouring it into myself and my parents as they age…i feel amazing
2026-11-05 09:27:25
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fucktrump658
Anna Does TikTok :
This is true, they aura farm you.
2026-11-08 07:31:17
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deelulu__
Dee :
the moment I get energy that’s off….access revoked indefinitely and you no longer exist
2026-11-08 04:29:19
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phonginh783
nô lệ của tư bản :
Taking care of yourself isn't selfish.
2026-11-08 16:55:44
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belladonna133
☾ ʟ ᴀ ᴜ ʀ ᴇ ɴ ᛑᛗᛛ :
I've learned to be very careful when it comes to who I allow to be around my energy.
2026-11-05 09:36:19
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gold.bit.hermit
Goldbit Hermit :
I am AuDHD....I know how to do everything....there are very few people who I Would need help from so, I am careful who I spend time with....I have learned to only be around people who can help me and I help them.
2026-11-05 16:52:35
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art_bynadia
artbynadia :
I’ve learnt discernment in my 30’s. I used to give my energy so freely to others. Not anymore.
2026-11-05 11:05:34
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sapphirerapture
Gianni :
So true, and when I was a hyper-people pleaser, people used to say I was like a battery for the group. When I went through a spiritual awakening and started being genuine and becoming resentful people started to reject me.
2026-11-05 14:22:23
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welliguessso69
welliguessso :
“I’m not here to entertain you” (cue the villain treatment)
2026-11-06 07:30:55
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travelstar4
Sana :
Heavy thank you ! I felt abused in majority female friendships but never felt this way with my guy friends. I feel my guy friends understand directness much more
2026-11-05 20:20:59
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misscountryside
Miss Boss 🫶 :
Never heard such true words in my life! 💯
2026-11-05 21:46:12
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loveorc1
LOVE W. :
Thats why i blocked them😂🥰
2026-11-05 09:19:28
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rainbow202027
Marty :
I have a coworker who basically decided we are friends .I had not given her any indication of that. She would try to ask me to go out with her shopping but really she needed to get groceries. I told her I’m busy. She went as far to ask to borrow 2 k. She had the money but didn’t want to borrow from her line of credit or so she say. I found that very strange .i feel lien she was also pocket watching me . I said no. That sort of changed things. Other things like she would ltake me out to lunch for my birthday but never ever a card or gift. Now we have a new coworker and she has latched onto her. I’m slowly trying to keep my distance. I knew she was never a friend. Coworkers are not your friends .
2026-11-05 12:54:22
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3amsleepdemon
Felix :
Yeah but they suck the life out of you they stop seeing you they stop inviting you after you snapped at them for always putting drugs in your drink and called it a prank
2026-11-06 01:57:01
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brightersun777
jan :
it is not them,no,the war in the spirit world is actually realm,... disconnected beings want that creative force inside of u
2026-11-05 09:21:38
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mystoryboards
Raven House :
When we know they are playing us…we turn into villains and justice will be their karma! 🔥
2026-11-05 16:57:42
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