TaraUnfiltered :
YOU ARE NOT SELFISH!!! you a someone who now has to live with this PTSD forever. whoever said that clearly doesn't know how this feels, doesn't know the struggles we have to live with life long.
it's selfish to not have empathy or even pretend to understand how our brains are now wired. every cough, pain, headache, twinge, cold, flu, infection takes us right back, take us to that place we're trying so hard to not to be in.
there's not enough aftercare and I will stand by that statement!!
oncologist, surgeons and breast nurse are great during treatment... but after, where are they? nowhere to be seen. it's awful!!!
this time, after treatment is the hardest, hence I started my tiktok after treatment because I really struggle with the fear or recurrence.
you are not selfish, you are in survival mode, you're wanting peace of mind for your kids sake more than anything!!!
2026-11-05 10:00:00