no matter the skill if it's without passion it's just mechanical
2026-11-05 15:34:56
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Sky 🦋 :
Big agree. Being present is like 90% of what makes it ‘good’
2026-11-05 15:41:15
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sanng.b :
It's about compatability. In addition to good communication, compromises and consent ofc
2026-11-05 18:06:51
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laurathesoloexplorer :
The “best” sex is always when it’s centred around openness, vulnerability and great communication. Those experiences with people where you’re both so committed to just exploring eachother’s body and having fun. It’s great !!! I do think a huge part of that comes with being able to do that on your own first and explore what pleasure looks like to you as well truly exploring your sexuality. These conversations are so important !!🙌🏾
2026-11-05 16:55:21
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Lionsayshey on Twitch :
Would you say it would be wrong to say someone is a good or bad conversationalist?
2026-11-06 11:15:02
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Finn :
yeah and if in every experience and environment the other person is happy and present would that not make sm1 good at it
2026-11-05 16:35:52
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amoi :
i think it shouldn’t be that serious and should be fun
2026-11-05 16:38:07
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rhi :
refreshing to see man speak so eloquently nd introspectively about this topic
2026-11-05 21:46:26
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mh240592 :
I cannot stand when I’m getting to know a man and he says he is good at sex. Every sexual relationship will be different and feel different. Some sensual, some more heated, some more kinky. I hate the bragging. I seems so one sided.
2026-11-06 09:45:39
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NT.30 :
Surely with exploration and interrogation, proficiency develops where one ultimately becomes “good”? Then the opposite is true, if the one’s motivation is to be “good”, exploration and interrogation is needed? Sex is definitely a skill though
2026-11-05 19:31:50
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Backholesun :
I like the sentiment but I have to disagree. It’s true, that what a person enjoys is unique to that person and that evolves as they age, etc. While good sex can be subjective bad sex can be pretty objective at its most base level. The angle of entry, what muscles to engage when thrusting, basic anatomy and the mechanics of how the human body can bend and move, and more are the basic and pretty universal skills to develop in order to have sex. Good sex is built off of those basic skills and adjusting and fine tuning things based on what you and your partner need and want. Ultimately though, clear and direct communication, especially in the first few encounters with someone, is the real key to having good and/or fulfilling sexual experiences.
2026-11-05 20:11:26
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ℭ𝔢𝔯𝔦☆ :
I vote this sex education curriculum idea of the year.
2026-11-05 15:35:05
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Stine :
Ive had great sex in my life. But now at 49, it is the first time I’m truly experiencing sex where we both lean in and are completely present. Now it feels like everything leading up to this was performative.
2026-11-05 21:13:19
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icucyx7 :
🥰🥰🥰
2026-11-05 17:39:41
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leniana :
Sex is being in relationship with another human being. It's not an isolated skill.
2026-11-05 16:21:17
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The Steve :
You just yapping at this point, you definitely can be good and bad at sex
2026-11-05 15:28:53
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